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Why Not Now?

“If today is the day you will take your destiny into your hands, you will soon discover that you hold the keys of fate.”- Unknown

If there is anything my friends and family know me as, it’s: I seize opportunities and make shit happen! I’ve been the biggest advocate of finding your own voice, carving your own path that’s authentic to you, making your own destiny, and become the biggest learner of life.

As young people survive the recession, we realized that any job or materialistic satisfaction can diminish at any moment. This brought on a turn of realization for our generation: If we can lose our job at any moment, then why not do what we truly want to do? Live life to how we want to?

So many young people are questioning how they were spending their time (work, family, etc) and explore where their passion really lies. Especially, in the last 2 years, individuals were looking for new jobs in industry they always wanted to do. Moving to new cities, states and countries to revitalize their life. Some going to school to advance in the direction they’ve always dreamed of. Others, quit to travel and live life. Mostly, re-evaluating a meaningful life, change and reducing the materialistic indulgence that really doesn’t matter in the long run. I know I did! It was refreshing.

This blog post was inspired by DailyOm blog post below (exploring passion and breaking down time constraints):

How we utilize that time is consequently one of the most important decisions we make. Yet it is far too easy to put off until tomorrow what we are dreaming of today. The hectic pace of modern existence affords us an easy out; we shelve our aspirations so we can cope more effectively with the challenges of the present, ostensibly to have more time and leisure to realize our purpose in the future. Or we tell ourselves that we will chase our dreams someday once we have accomplished other lesser goals. In truth, it is our fear that keeps us from seeking fulfillment in the here and now—because we view failure as a possibility, our reasons for delaying our inevitable success seem sound and rational. If we ask ourselves what we are really waiting for, however, we discover that there is no truly compelling reason why we should put off the pursuit of the dreams that sustain us.

When regarded as a question, “Why not now?” drains us of our power to realize our ambitions. We are so concerned with the notion that we are somehow undeserving of happiness that we cannot see that there is much we can do in the present to begin courting it. Yet when we look decisively at our existence and state, “Why not now, indeed!” we are empowered to begin changing our lives this very moment. We procrastinate for many reasons, from a perceived lack of time to a legitimate lack of self-belief, but the truth of the matter is that there is no time like the present and no time but the present. Whatever we aim to accomplish, we will achieve it more quickly and with a greater degree of efficiency when we seize the day and make the most of the resources we have at our disposal presently.

All the joy, passion, and contentment you can envision can be yours right now, rather than in some far-flung point in time. You need only remind yourself that there is nothing standing between you and fulfillment. If you decide that today is the day you will take your destiny into your hands, you will soon discover that you hold the keys of fate.

What will you do in your life NOW that you know you can?

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Comment by KRYSTAL WALKER
2010-05-21 09:25:56

I AM GONNA RIDE THIS LIFE TO THE WHEELS FALL OF LIKE MARTIN SAYS I ONLY HAVE THIS ONE LIFE I AM GONNA MAKE THE BEST OF IT AN WHEN I AM GONE I PLAN TOO LEAVE SOMETHING THAT SOMEONE ELSE CAN USE TO BETTER THERE OWN LIFE. I WILL HAVE NO REGRETS WHAT SO EVER.

Comment by Vanae
2010-05-22 17:54:49

high five* v’star krystal!

 
 
Comment by ekein
2010-05-21 14:02:02

Great blog post! I wake up every day thinking like this, it’s my source of motivation that I draw upon when I need reminding to never be comfortable with mediocracy. And this extends to just about everything in life.

Comment by Vanae
2010-05-22 17:56:21

thanks! and i always value being content vs. complacent. embrace your best. and keep rockin’ it!

 
 
Comment by heroineworshiper
2010-05-22 11:50:31

Pretty much decided if our boss expects 7 day commitments yet won’t commit to the career growth we lose by devoting 7 days to just him, we can’t afford it.

 
Comment by Ninja Mike
2010-05-24 09:26:03

Good stuff. Something in there is making me think of something else… I have a couple other sources for dating advice besides you, and the particular gurus that I subscribe to teach dating as a small part of your overall life, which I like. Anyway, one of the points they made in meeting women was that you can’t hesitate. And then, they extrapolated to business deals, etc etc. I just wonder how often a moment’s hesitation stops us from being truly happy.

 
Comment by Keith
2010-05-25 08:18:34

…I’m going to exercise….and…..I’m gonna hurt myself a little….. Got a little tweek in my knee I’m going to work out. I’m also gonna diet better. 45 bucks werth of lean cusines; I better lose some frikkin weight….

 
Comment by Tim Matsushita
2010-07-24 03:44:09

YEAHHHHH!!!!

 
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