Comments on: Why do women love assholes? http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/ The freshest coach to empower you for love and life. Sat, 31 Jul 2010 10:15:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Queen of the Rant http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-7419 Queen of the Rant Fri, 18 Jun 2010 20:44:27 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-7419 We date ass' when we are young, I don't know why but I think it makes us feel like we are rebelling. Really once we get older we want a good man, who will settle down with us. <a href="http://rantingaboutrelationships.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Relationship Rant</a> We date ass’ when we are young, I don’t know why but I think it makes us feel like we are rebelling. Really once we get older we want a good man, who will settle down with us.
Relationship Rant

]]> By: Tri Khuc http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-7351 Tri Khuc Fri, 04 Jun 2010 01:56:03 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-7351 It's all in the thrill :) It’s all in the thrill :)

]]> By: Random dude http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-7329 Random dude Wed, 02 Jun 2010 05:44:08 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-7329 i swear nothing makes sense anymore?!?! i dont get it...lol how co e girls go for the douchers that 1) disrespect them 2) are only in it for the sex then girls say they want a nice guy and date another doucher and whine about to there friends? lol i dont and never will understand women.. if anyone does tell me cuz this is frickin confusing hahaha i swear nothing makes sense anymore?!?! i dont get it…lol how co
e girls go for the douchers that 1) disrespect them 2) are only in it for the sex then girls say they want a nice guy and date another doucher and whine about to there friends? lol i dont and never will understand women.. if anyone does tell me cuz this is frickin confusing hahaha

]]> By: Connor http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-7315 Connor Sun, 30 May 2010 09:04:18 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-7315 ok im confused....im kinda like split personality type guy..something like ill be all sensitive and stuff like 1 on 1 but in a group of people or public ill act strong confident and stuff so i donno....and most girls like the guys who are assholes and flirt alot.....just saying :p ok im confused….im kinda like split personality type guy..something like ill be all sensitive and stuff like 1 on 1 but in a group of people or public ill act strong confident and stuff so i donno….and most girls like the guys who are assholes and flirt alot…..just saying :p

]]> By: Ryan http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-7171 Ryan Tue, 04 May 2010 00:02:40 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-7171 Hello to all. I am not a experienced dater and the last time I asked a girl out was like more than 10+ years ago. But lot of the times I see these male punk ass bastards with these fine ass woman and I always wonder how come I can't be like them, is me or is it just that these woman like the bad boys? I've dated only twice in my 34 years of life and I've always treated them right but I got dumped afterfew months or even weeks. So now I think I 've become more scared to ask because of rejection and well I can't take rejection too well. I don't like being getting hurt. I've had a bad child hood past where being hurt is not an option for me. Although I think over the years I have learned from others and learned to deal with emotional pain as well. I don't have much friends here but I learned to live with that. It was hard but you adjust as time goes by. Now whenever I see woman get hurt I don't laugh at it or applaud, I just say well she had it coming or she deserved it. My question is does that make me a bad person? It will be nice if someone could answere this question that has been lingering for so long. Thank you for letting me share this with all of you and taking your time to read this really long letter. From hurting an confused Ryan Hello to all. I am not a experienced dater and the last time I asked a girl out was like more than 10+ years ago. But lot of the times I see these male punk ass bastards with these fine ass woman and I always wonder how come I can’t be like them, is me or is it just that these woman like the bad boys? I’ve dated only twice in my 34 years of life and I’ve always treated them right but I got dumped afterfew months or even weeks. So now I think I ‘ve become more scared to ask because of rejection and well I can’t take rejection too well. I don’t like being getting hurt. I’ve had a bad child hood past where being hurt is not an option for me. Although I think over the years I have learned from others and learned to deal with emotional pain as well. I don’t have much friends here but I learned to live with that. It was hard but you adjust as time goes by. Now whenever I see woman get hurt I don’t laugh at it or applaud, I just say well she had it coming or she deserved it. My question is does that make me a bad person? It will be nice if someone could answere this question that has been lingering for so long. Thank you for letting me share this with all of you and taking your time to read this really long letter.

From hurting an confused
Ryan

]]> By: jerome http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-6861 jerome Sat, 06 Mar 2010 00:52:06 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-6861 VERY INTERESTING PIECE, I’M GLAD I CHECKED IT OUT. THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING NEW TO GROW ON. VERY INTERESTING PIECE, I’M GLAD I CHECKED IT OUT. THERE’S ALWAYS SOMETHING NEW TO GROW ON.

]]> By: Mo http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-6698 Mo Tue, 16 Feb 2010 01:31:50 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-6698 Ughh assholes treat women like shit but yet they are like moths in the light women seem to crawl back to them and can’t say NO to them but usually the younger women in their early to mid late 20’s. Why do women like the assholes? Assholes treat people like shit including you the girlfriend. These men are douchebags that can get away with acting like a complete dumbasses, are usually abusive, like to talk down to you, think they are the shit, and rarly grow the f*** up. Why why why why why why why do women like the losers. These men are the loser garbage men. Yeah they might have some friends at the begining of your relationships but they typically start to lose their friends because they don’t f****** grow up and if their friends stay with them the friends are also assholes, douchebags. I have a person that I work with that is clearly a douchebag, asshole and I always wonder why in the hell his now wife would be married to such a guy. I would not be one bit supprised if I heard him say she and him are getting divorced. Women I think get confused that they think asshole/douchebag = assertive. UGH NO Assholes/douchebags DO NOT= assertive quit the opposite!!Assholes/douchebags are the angry men in life and they always get so pissed when their women ask them to do something, they will yell at their girlfriend/wives, like to make them cry they forget their wives birthdays, they would rather go out with “the guys” on important holidays such as valintines day. You really want a guy like that that is never and we MEAN NEVER going to grow up, always immature etc etc etc etc… assholes/douchebags are scum. Then you women wonder why eventually these asshole/douchebag men are at the end of the bar all alone, constantly drunk, pissed off at the world and likes to pick fights. These are such LOOSERS!! Ughh assholes treat women like shit but yet they are like moths in the light women seem to crawl back to them and can’t say NO to them but usually the younger women in their early to mid late 20’s. Why do women like the assholes? Assholes treat people like shit including you the girlfriend. These men are douchebags that can get away with acting like a complete dumbasses, are usually abusive, like to talk down to you, think they are the shit, and rarly grow the f*** up. Why why why why why why why do women like the losers. These men are the loser garbage men. Yeah they might have some friends at the begining of your relationships but they typically start to lose their friends because they don’t f****** grow up and if their friends stay with them the friends are also assholes, douchebags.

I have a person that I work with that is clearly a douchebag, asshole and I always wonder why in the hell his now wife would be married to such a guy. I would not be one bit supprised if I heard him say she and him are getting divorced. Women I think get confused that they think asshole/douchebag = assertive. UGH NO Assholes/douchebags DO NOT= assertive quit the opposite!!Assholes/douchebags are the angry men in life and they always get so pissed when their women ask them to do something, they will yell at their girlfriend/wives, like to make them cry they forget their wives birthdays, they would rather go out with “the guys” on important holidays such as valintines day. You really want a guy like that that is never and we MEAN NEVER going to grow up, always immature etc etc etc etc… assholes/douchebags are scum. Then you women wonder why eventually these asshole/douchebag men are at the end of the bar all alone, constantly drunk, pissed off at the world and likes to pick fights. These are such LOOSERS!!

]]> By: Mo http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-6686 Mo Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:10:14 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-6686 Ughh assholes treat women like shit but yet they are like moths in the light women seem to crawl back to them and can't say NO to them but usually the younger women in their early to mid late 20's. Why do women like the assholes? Assholes treat people like shit including you the girlfriend. These men are douchebags that can get away with acting like a complete dumbasses, are usually abusive, like to talk down to you, think they are the shit, and rarly grow the f*** up. Why why why why why why why do women like the losers. These men are the loser garbage men. Yeah they might have some friends at the begining of your relationships but they typically start to lose their friends because they don't f****** grow up and if their friends stay with them the friends are also assholes, douchebags. I have a person that I work with that is clearly a douchebag, asshole and I always wonder why in the hell his now wife would be married to such a guy. I would not be one bit supprised if I heard him say she and him are getting divorced. Women I think get confused that asshole/douchebag does not = assertive. Assholes/douchebags are the angry men in life and they always get so pissed when their women ask them to do something, they will yell at their girlfriend/wives, like to make them cry they forget their wives birthdays, they would rather go out with "the guys" on important holidays such as valintines day. You really want a guy like that that is never and we MEAN NEVER going to grow up, always immature etc etc etc etc... assholes/douchebags are scum. Then you women wonder why eventually these asshole/douchebag men are at the end of the bar all alone, constantly drunk, pissed off at the world and likes to pick fights. These are such LOOSERS!! Ughh assholes treat women like shit but yet they are like moths in the light women seem to crawl back to them and can’t say NO to them but usually the younger women in their early to mid late 20′s. Why do women like the assholes? Assholes treat people like shit including you the girlfriend. These men are douchebags that can get away with acting like a complete dumbasses, are usually abusive, like to talk down to you, think they are the shit, and rarly grow the f*** up. Why why why why why why why do women like the losers. These men are the loser garbage men. Yeah they might have some friends at the begining of your relationships but they typically start to lose their friends because they don’t f****** grow up and if their friends stay with them the friends are also assholes, douchebags.

I have a person that I work with that is clearly a douchebag, asshole and I always wonder why in the hell his now wife would be married to such a guy. I would not be one bit supprised if I heard him say she and him are getting divorced. Women I think get confused that asshole/douchebag does not = assertive. Assholes/douchebags are the angry men in life and they always get so pissed when their women ask them to do something, they will yell at their girlfriend/wives, like to make them cry they forget their wives birthdays, they would rather go out with “the guys” on important holidays such as valintines day. You really want a guy like that that is never and we MEAN NEVER going to grow up, always immature etc etc etc etc… assholes/douchebags are scum. Then you women wonder why eventually these asshole/douchebag men are at the end of the bar all alone, constantly drunk, pissed off at the world and likes to pick fights. These are such LOOSERS!!

]]> By: Divad http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-6163 Divad Mon, 28 Dec 2009 04:33:10 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-6163 Everyone wants to be loved and to be able to love someone. Sadly, in the media-hyped/high tech world we live in, people assume real-life to be what they view on the T.V. People can't seem to grasp the reality that TV/movies aren't "real." Women unrealistically expect men to be the exciting, rich, playboy on the T.V. show or movie screen they viewed the night before. Men unrealistically expect women to be the airbrushed, flawless, fake-boobed woman who never looks like she just woke up (even IF she did just wake up!) In a word ... perfect. These are unrealistic expectations on both sides of the fence and unfair to the person you just missed being in your life because you blew them off when they tried to approach you. It runs over into marriage as well. Unrealistic TV/movie expectations of a partner/marriage/life have contributed to many divorces. We could all benefit from not letting the media (airbrushed Victoria's Secret Models and medically enhanced Hollywood stars) set our standards for us. Most of us will never be "jet-setting" types with fabulous houses in the south of France and you know what? That should be OK. Everyone has a heart and a soul (even when it seems like they don't) and most just want to share their lives (to some degree) with those they love. People have become unapproachable and this isn't good for humanity. Love someone and let someone love you back (even if they don't look like Eva Mendes or Brad Pitt). Love is good for the soul. Companionship makes life less lonely and worth living. BTW Vanae, I believe you are truly intelligent, witty and kind for providing your insight/helping others, which only adds to your beauty both inside and out. (Smiles 4 U) You are a hottie (and I mean that with total respect). Cheers! Everyone wants to be loved and to be able to love someone.
Sadly, in the media-hyped/high tech world we live in, people assume real-life to be what they view on the T.V.
People can’t seem to grasp the reality that TV/movies aren’t “real.”

Women unrealistically expect men to be the exciting, rich, playboy on the T.V. show or movie screen they viewed the night before. Men unrealistically expect women to be the airbrushed, flawless, fake-boobed woman who never looks like she just woke up (even IF she did just wake up!) In a word … perfect.

These are unrealistic expectations on both sides of the fence and unfair to the person you just missed being in your life because you blew them off when they tried to approach you.

It runs over into marriage as well.

Unrealistic TV/movie expectations of a partner/marriage/life have contributed to many divorces.

We could all benefit from not letting the media (airbrushed Victoria’s Secret Models and medically enhanced Hollywood stars) set our standards for us.
Most of us will never be “jet-setting” types with fabulous houses in the south of France and you know what?
That should be OK.

Everyone has a heart and a soul (even when it seems like they don’t) and most just want to share their lives (to some degree) with those they love.

People have become unapproachable and this isn’t good for humanity. Love someone and let someone love you back (even if they don’t look like Eva Mendes or Brad Pitt).
Love is good for the soul. Companionship makes life less lonely and worth living.

BTW Vanae, I believe you are truly intelligent, witty and kind for providing your insight/helping others, which only adds to your beauty both inside and out. (Smiles 4 U)

You are a hottie (and I mean that with total respect).
Cheers!

]]> By: brad http://vanae.com/why-do-women-love-assholes/comment-page-1/#comment-6144 brad Thu, 24 Dec 2009 23:15:08 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=530#comment-6144 hey i just like to say.... your completely right about the approaching thing if dont do it ur definitly gunna miss out and if you do do it you ether get 1 or 2 things... a great story about how you met and also show you have cofidence... or you get shot down which still show you have the confidence to at least make an attempt, and just let it roll off your back thou her loss not your! hey i just like to say…. your completely right about the approaching thing if dont do it ur definitly gunna miss out and if you do do it you ether get 1 or 2 things… a great story about how you met and also show you have cofidence… or you get shot down which still show you have the confidence to at least make an attempt, and just let it roll off your back thou her loss not your!

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