Comments on: What to do after you get the phone number http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/ The freshest coach to empower you for love and life. Thu, 02 Feb 2012 20:36:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Remy http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4315 Remy Fri, 03 Jul 2009 20:45:09 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4315 dont ask to hang out right away ie. hey its _____ fromte h other night what you doing tonight want to do something? gotta get teh conversation going first and dont throw too much at them at once ive seen it happen! and you probably wont hear from them again. and say you leave that one message and they still dont reply ever dont let it get you down always think " thier loss on knowing a great person" ^_^ dont ask to hang out right away ie. hey its _____ fromte h other night what you doing tonight want to do something? gotta get teh conversation going first and dont throw too much at them at once ive seen it happen! and you probably wont hear from them again. and say you leave that one message and they still dont reply ever dont let it get you down always think ” thier loss on knowing a great person” ^_^

]]> By: Camellia http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4228 Camellia Tue, 23 Jun 2009 18:09:08 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4228 don't give her number out to your friends and then have them call her multiple times, in an attempt to get her to go out with you. that would probably be one way to get on her nerves don’t give her number out to your friends and then have them call her multiple times, in an attempt to get her to go out with you. that would probably be one way to get on her nerves

]]> By: Luke http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4220 Luke Sat, 20 Jun 2009 13:17:18 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4220 Vanae, I only just discovered you via Youtube. You rock girl!!! How did you get to be so wise? Not sure if I'm in a position to advise people about dating. I mostly rely on luck, humour and failing those sympathy. :P What do you think of the three day rule? You know if you meet a girl Sunday call Wednesday. Also is there a section on your site where one can ask specific questions? Vanae, I only just discovered you via Youtube. You rock girl!!! How did you get to be so wise? Not sure if I’m in a position to advise people about dating. I mostly rely on luck, humour and failing those sympathy. :P What do you think of the three day rule? You know if you meet a girl Sunday call Wednesday. Also is there a section on your site where one can ask specific questions?

]]> By: JD http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4213 JD Fri, 19 Jun 2009 03:58:45 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4213 Once you call, be confident and be yourself is the best thing to do. I still get nervous when I get a new number... to calm my nerves, I go to the gym or run, and watch the news.. RELAX! What you should NOT do is lie about anything to hype your image, cuz if she does decide to hang out or to have a date, she is going to find out eventually. Your time is precious, so don't waste it through lies. Hope this helps Peace, JD Once you call, be confident and be yourself is the best thing to do. I still get nervous when I get a new number… to calm my nerves, I go to the gym or run, and watch the news.. RELAX!

What you should NOT do is lie about anything to hype your image, cuz if she does decide to hang out or to have a date, she is going to find out eventually. Your time is precious, so don’t waste it through lies.

Hope this helps
Peace,

JD

]]> By: Vanae http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4195 Vanae Wed, 17 Jun 2009 15:12:50 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4195 skyy is pretty dang awesome! skyy is pretty dang awesome!

]]> By: Jerome (Mrpinoy91) http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4188 Jerome (Mrpinoy91) Wed, 17 Jun 2009 02:18:24 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4188 OMG VANAE! you did it again. I was thinking of something. and you answered it with your blog conscidentally. :D thank you. haha OMG VANAE! you did it again. I was thinking of something. and you answered it with your blog conscidentally.
:D thank you. haha

]]> By: Jerome (Mrpinoy91) http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4187 Jerome (Mrpinoy91) Wed, 17 Jun 2009 02:15:24 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4187 LMAOOO! I LOVE THAT GUY! i'm subrscirbing to sky. haha LMAOOO! I LOVE THAT GUY! i’m subrscirbing to sky. haha

]]> By: Locus http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4180 Locus Tue, 16 Jun 2009 14:17:39 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4180 BE YOURSELF. Guys, women KNOW when your not being 100% with them so why try to fake it? This whack idea of "pre-texting" is kinda lame. Are you really going to ask permission from this girl, to "attempt" to contact her again? If you really need this assurance that you have permission to contact her, you already lost. When it comes to the point of exchanging phone numbers you should be completely confident that this girl WANTS you to call her. You should have established this "pre-texting" deal when you met her. Typically you get a girls number because you both found a common interest and an attraction to one another. USE THIS FORMULA!!! (How It Works) Lets assume that you and a buddy meet up with a couple girls at a fair, club, etc. whatever. You start off with some chit chat maybe some small talk. LIGHT conversation guys, come on now!!! But eventually one of you mention something that your both into, interested in, passionate about, whatever. Elaborate, exchange ideas and likes and reasoning behind this extraordinary idea. From there your IN!!! Lets say she is into this whole pastry chef deal that as Jonsi described... He had a prime opportunity to not only establish a day he is going to call her but also get a date out of the deal. After talking to her about the wonderful world of pastries and such he could have said something along the lines of... "So, I know this place that has the most amazing pies you can imagine. I go there every now and again, i think you would love it. Why don't you give me your number and some time next week ill give ya a jingle and we can go check it out." Look this isn't rocket science, if you cant simply give her reason for you to call her, then you have failed already. This isn't hard, just have confidence, and be yourself. BE YOURSELF.

Guys, women KNOW when your not being 100% with them so why try to fake it?

This whack idea of “pre-texting” is kinda lame. Are you really going to ask permission from this girl, to “attempt” to contact her again?

If you really need this assurance that you have permission to contact her, you already lost.

When it comes to the point of exchanging phone numbers you should be completely confident that this girl WANTS you to call her. You should have established this “pre-texting” deal when you met her.
Typically you get a girls number because you both found a common interest and an attraction to one another. USE THIS FORMULA!!!

(How It Works)
Lets assume that you and a buddy meet up with a couple girls at a fair, club, etc. whatever.

You start off with some chit chat maybe some small talk. LIGHT conversation guys, come on now!!! But eventually one of you mention something that your both into, interested in, passionate about, whatever.

Elaborate, exchange ideas and likes and reasoning behind this extraordinary idea.

From there your IN!!!

Lets say she is into this whole pastry chef deal that as Jonsi described…

He had a prime opportunity to not only establish a day he is going to call her but also get a date out of the deal.

After talking to her about the wonderful world of pastries and such he could have said something along the lines of…

“So, I know this place that has the most amazing pies you can imagine. I go there every now and again, i think you would love it. Why don’t you give me your number and some time next week ill give ya a jingle and we can go check it out.”

Look this isn’t rocket science, if you cant simply give her reason for you to call her, then you have failed already.

This isn’t hard, just have confidence, and be yourself.

]]> By: Maxx http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4168 Maxx Tue, 16 Jun 2009 02:32:25 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4168 You have to calm down, have fun, and really listening what she is all about, gathering info about her to make something to talk about with her, founding commonalities. Dont overthink, dont overcomplicate. Think about it like that: people are doing it all the time and did it for many years, and they didnt need a special techniques. They were learning through experience You have to calm down, have fun, and really listening what she is all about, gathering info about her to make something to talk about with her, founding commonalities.
Dont overthink, dont overcomplicate. Think about it like that: people are doing it all the time and did it for many years, and they didnt need a special techniques. They were learning through experience

]]> By: Jonathan http://vanae.com/what-to-do-after-you-get-the-phone-number/comment-page-1/#comment-4163 Jonathan Mon, 15 Jun 2009 20:47:03 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2400#comment-4163 just be yourself and don't be weird. just be yourself and don’t be weird.

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