Many of you have been asking me about intimacy. How do I talk sexy? How should I…? How do I get my girlfriend to…?
What I like about hanging out with my friend, Noah, is that our openness and lack of taboo topics = super interesting conversations. When we talked about what one shouldn’t say during intimacy…he shared this hilarious flow-chart. I thought you’d get a kick out of this:
What NOT to say during sex
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What would you add this chart?
Vanae’s album of the week: The Firefly by The Frail. My friend, Daniel, is the singer of this uber-cool band from SF. Definitely one of my top SF bands and it’s for good reason! Fun electro music that is delicate yet so funky that it makes you dance in your underpants. Yes, I like to rhyme sometimes. Take a listen to their FireFly EP Sampler on their myspace and get their tracks so you’ll be dancing in your undies as well! http://www.myspace.com/thefrailsf Perhaps you’ll be moving to their music, as you make your sexy moves tonight.
ROFL!!! OMG, LUV IT!
LoL, Hello new background (“Do you smell what the rock is cookin?!?!?” So random!)
i LOVE that one too!
Especially in the early stages of intimacy, it’s important to be (1) natural and (2) playful in the sweet-n-hot talk you lay on your lover. In my experience the eye-speak and body language usually provide good lead-in and feedback before any words pop out (the obvious exception would be if I was texting or VMing or IMing suggestively). A little humor and playfulness go a long way towards relaxing her (and me), and relaxation is such a good place to begin that slow burn towards ecstasy . . . .
Dang . . . I’m blushing. :^ O
GREAT topic by the way, vanae. What you posted before about confidence and daring directly relate.
Wow, people really say some of these things?
I’ll leave it at that!
haha no no. it’s suppose to be funny
Wow I never thought of at least
half of what’s in here
aaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhhh!!!
too complicated!!!
Hi Vanae,
As a girl i was wondering if the size of a guys tool matters. I am 6 inches and i was wanting to take extragen penis enlargement pills i wanted to know whether a bigger penis would mean more repeats from one night stands. I’m asking this from the totally superficial level, i know there are other things like personality, attitude etc. I think i have those worked out. Its just the penis size im talking about.