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		<title>By: Rezereus</title>
		<link>http://vanae.com/what-can-we-do-about-this/comment-page-1/#comment-9378</link>
		<dc:creator>Rezereus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 07:22:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wanna know my thoughts ?

1) Track the rapers and place them in a psychological cell to see if they aren&#039;t ill (psychotics or something).
2) If they were conscious and kinda &quot;healthy&quot;, then pass to the A) point.

A) TORTURE THEM TO DEATH.
B) Sustain their life the most possible, to make them suffer months and months.
C) Organize a DAILY rape with animals like goats, horses, chickens, bulls ...
D) Be creative and torture them in another funny way each hour : burning, beating, break their bones, cut one hand of a guy, and FIST HIS ASS with, then make him eat his hand, chainsaw haircut etc etc ...
E) When the night comes, you shall prefer a psychological torture. This pass by audio torture, video, cut their eyelids then you can control when they sleep and when they don&#039;t, play with them etc ...

Of course, if one dies, be sure that YOU DESTROY HIS SOUL FOREVER by letting all kind of animals rape his dirty body at the moment when he passes out, while you&#039;re burning him, drowning him and using chainsaw on his penis.

And all of that is SOFT</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wanna know my thoughts ?</p>
<p>1) Track the rapers and place them in a psychological cell to see if they aren&#8217;t ill (psychotics or something).<br />
2) If they were conscious and kinda &#8220;healthy&#8221;, then pass to the A) point.</p>
<p>A) TORTURE THEM TO DEATH.<br />
B) Sustain their life the most possible, to make them suffer months and months.<br />
C) Organize a DAILY rape with animals like goats, horses, chickens, bulls &#8230;<br />
D) Be creative and torture them in another funny way each hour : burning, beating, break their bones, cut one hand of a guy, and FIST HIS ASS with, then make him eat his hand, chainsaw haircut etc etc &#8230;<br />
E) When the night comes, you shall prefer a psychological torture. This pass by audio torture, video, cut their eyelids then you can control when they sleep and when they don&#8217;t, play with them etc &#8230;</p>
<p>Of course, if one dies, be sure that YOU DESTROY HIS SOUL FOREVER by letting all kind of animals rape his dirty body at the moment when he passes out, while you&#8217;re burning him, drowning him and using chainsaw on his penis.</p>
<p>And all of that is SOFT</p>
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		<title>By: Alice LSD</title>
		<link>http://vanae.com/what-can-we-do-about-this/comment-page-1/#comment-9082</link>
		<dc:creator>Alice LSD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2011 10:49:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re post was awesome!! It wasn&#039;t too long at all!! It was a very intelligent &amp; compassionate post!! Never feel weird to always explore life, and know that there are people out there like me who constantly explore life as well, and who share all of your sentiments!!
Great post Steve Nam!!

- Alice LSD</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re post was awesome!! It wasn&#8217;t too long at all!! It was a very intelligent &amp; compassionate post!! Never feel weird to always explore life, and know that there are people out there like me who constantly explore life as well, and who share all of your sentiments!!<br />
Great post Steve Nam!!</p>
<p>- Alice LSD</p>
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		<title>By: e</title>
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		<dc:creator>e</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Nov 2010 04:39:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Vanae if you are still following this case:the trial starts 11/15/2010 8:05AM Pacific time. Preliminary Hearing is on this monday where over 40 Witnesses will speak to the judge, the victim will not? be in the preliminary hearing but she will testify at the main trial. I don&#039;t know if COurt TV will air this monday but ABC news will show this by the 6PM news</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Vanae if you are still following this case:the trial starts 11/15/2010 8:05AM Pacific time. Preliminary Hearing is on this monday where over 40 Witnesses will speak to the judge, the victim will not? be in the preliminary hearing but she will testify at the main trial. I don&#8217;t know if COurt TV will air this monday but ABC news will show this by the 6PM news</p>
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		<title>By: Joseph Lin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joseph Lin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:47:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No.. Actually, I think this is a threat. You have the &quot;if you..&quot; and the result. Almighty? I have no God, you can&#039;t scare me. And carrying a gun whenever you&#039;re outside the house? You&#039;re cool (sarcasm you idiot). And I see how you like everyone to carry guns. It seems that you support an arms race. Well -- to show how idiotic you are, and narrow-minded, it will do you well to know that if everyone stopped making weapons of destruction, and utilized the funds to assist those in need, the world would be 10x as good as you imagine your world to be.

Though you probably won&#039;t understand this. You&#039;re a bit stupid. 

P.S. You never mentioned that you carried a gun while you&#039;re inside your home, what good does it do you when you post that for me to see? And this is not a threat - it is a question.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No.. Actually, I think this is a threat. You have the &#8220;if you..&#8221; and the result. Almighty? I have no God, you can&#8217;t scare me. And carrying a gun whenever you&#8217;re outside the house? You&#8217;re cool (sarcasm you idiot). And I see how you like everyone to carry guns. It seems that you support an arms race. Well &#8212; to show how idiotic you are, and narrow-minded, it will do you well to know that if everyone stopped making weapons of destruction, and utilized the funds to assist those in need, the world would be 10x as good as you imagine your world to be.</p>
<p>Though you probably won&#8217;t understand this. You&#8217;re a bit stupid. </p>
<p>P.S. You never mentioned that you carried a gun while you&#8217;re inside your home, what good does it do you when you post that for me to see? And this is not a threat &#8211; it is a question.</p>
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		<title>By: Joseph Lin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joseph Lin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:37:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for taking my perspective and analyzing it. Helps that someone is able to critically think.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for taking my perspective and analyzing it. Helps that someone is able to critically think.</p>
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		<title>By: Joseph Lin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joseph Lin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:29:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yo! Thanks for the nice comment. I appreciate it. You do forget, however, the world fluctuates. If you think about a diagonal line going up -- that would be your interpretation in this world view you explained to me (sorry if i misread your intentions, it is a bit short to pull from). As a social group, things would work well. Marx&#039;s idea. And perhaps even socialism. Believe me, I would like to see peace in this world. Perhaps unachievable because people vary. You can&#039;t stop that from happening, that would be tyranny. There world we live in today, it wouldn&#039;t be exciting if we knew we could simply live and die and everyday would be the same.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yo! Thanks for the nice comment. I appreciate it. You do forget, however, the world fluctuates. If you think about a diagonal line going up &#8212; that would be your interpretation in this world view you explained to me (sorry if i misread your intentions, it is a bit short to pull from). As a social group, things would work well. Marx&#8217;s idea. And perhaps even socialism. Believe me, I would like to see peace in this world. Perhaps unachievable because people vary. You can&#8217;t stop that from happening, that would be tyranny. There world we live in today, it wouldn&#8217;t be exciting if we knew we could simply live and die and everyday would be the same.</p>
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		<title>By: Kyle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 19:54:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I carry a gun with me every second that I am outside my home.

Although I do not feel that Mr. Lin deserves the honor of being acknowledged, I will say to you Mr. Lin, that if you were to be a participant of the act which you seem to defend with such conviction, and I were one of the &quot;crowd&quot; I would pray that one of my bullets find it&#039;s way into your worthless body.  This is not a threat, or an accusation: but a statement.  Then you could try your twisted logic in front of the Almighty and see what he thinks.

P.S. I never claimed to be a good person, or righteous.


If everyone carried guns, criminals would think twice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I carry a gun with me every second that I am outside my home.</p>
<p>Although I do not feel that Mr. Lin deserves the honor of being acknowledged, I will say to you Mr. Lin, that if you were to be a participant of the act which you seem to defend with such conviction, and I were one of the &#8220;crowd&#8221; I would pray that one of my bullets find it&#8217;s way into your worthless body.  This is not a threat, or an accusation: but a statement.  Then you could try your twisted logic in front of the Almighty and see what he thinks.</p>
<p>P.S. I never claimed to be a good person, or righteous.</p>
<p>If everyone carried guns, criminals would think twice.</p>
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		<title>By: macmouse</title>
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		<dc:creator>macmouse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 05:08:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would like to point out that it is a common misconception to believe that ONLY women are raped and it is ONLY committed by men. 
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One in every eight rape victims were males (NCVS 2002).

About 60% of male survivors sampled, report at least one of their perpetrators to be female (Mendel, 1993).
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Just because our culture has a stereotype that is strongly reinforced (and hyped by the media) does not necessarily mean it is true. 

The only way to be comfortable with being violent against another person, is to either devalue the other person until you no longer consider them human or devalue YOURSELF until you are no longer human. 


Reinforcing a false dichotomy, that blames one group and victimizes another is not an effective way in persuading people to see each others as truly equal. 

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Additional #&#039;s
-Approximately 60% of boys and 80% of girls who are sexually victimized are abused by someone known to the child or the child&#039;s family (Lieb, Quinsey, and Berliner, 1998)
About 95% of victims know their perpetrators (CCPCA, 1992)
Over two thirds of all rapes occur in someone&#039;s home. 30.9% occur in the perpetrators&#039; homes, 26.6% in the victims&#039; homes and 10.1% in homes shared by the victim and perpetrator.(Abbey, BeShears, Sherrod and Mcauslan, 2004</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would like to point out that it is a common misconception to believe that ONLY women are raped and it is ONLY committed by men.<br />
&#8212;&#8211;<br />
One in every eight rape victims were males (NCVS 2002).</p>
<p>About 60% of male survivors sampled, report at least one of their perpetrators to be female (Mendel, 1993).<br />
&#8212;&#8212;<br />
Just because our culture has a stereotype that is strongly reinforced (and hyped by the media) does not necessarily mean it is true. </p>
<p>The only way to be comfortable with being violent against another person, is to either devalue the other person until you no longer consider them human or devalue YOURSELF until you are no longer human. </p>
<p>Reinforcing a false dichotomy, that blames one group and victimizes another is not an effective way in persuading people to see each others as truly equal. </p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;<br />
Additional #&#8217;s<br />
-Approximately 60% of boys and 80% of girls who are sexually victimized are abused by someone known to the child or the child&#8217;s family (Lieb, Quinsey, and Berliner, 1998)<br />
About 95% of victims know their perpetrators (CCPCA, 1992)<br />
Over two thirds of all rapes occur in someone&#8217;s home. 30.9% occur in the perpetrators&#8217; homes, 26.6% in the victims&#8217; homes and 10.1% in homes shared by the victim and perpetrator.(Abbey, BeShears, Sherrod and Mcauslan, 2004</p>
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		<title>By: Cesar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cesar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 13:17:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is definitely a sensitive subject and by reading through the posts it&#039;s touched a few raw nerves.

Firstly, no one deserves to be raped, beaten or humiliated in any type or form. I&#039;m totally against anyone who performs these type of barbaric crimes, especially where children are concerned.

Now, in regards to being drunk at fifteen it can certainly affect your judgement quite considerably. Although this behaviour by minors is quite &quot;Norm&quot; these days, I still feel parents should have greater control in advising their kids not to get intoxicated as it can lead to trouble due to poor judgement.

&lt;strong&gt;Alcohol and drugs generally tends to bring out the worst in people if it is abused!!! These are the &quot;Evils of Society&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is definitely a sensitive subject and by reading through the posts it&#8217;s touched a few raw nerves.</p>
<p>Firstly, no one deserves to be raped, beaten or humiliated in any type or form. I&#8217;m totally against anyone who performs these type of barbaric crimes, especially where children are concerned.</p>
<p>Now, in regards to being drunk at fifteen it can certainly affect your judgement quite considerably. Although this behaviour by minors is quite &#8220;Norm&#8221; these days, I still feel parents should have greater control in advising their kids not to get intoxicated as it can lead to trouble due to poor judgement.</p>
<p><strong>Alcohol and drugs generally tends to bring out the worst in people if it is abused!!! These are the &#8220;Evils of Society</strong></p>
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		<title>By: Maxx</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maxx</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:08:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe that rapes trigger pornography in mass medias. 
Lets say that 12 years old boy (or lil bit younger!) heard some times about sex in regular movie. But he doesnt know whats that all about, so he will take advantage of computer which he get last month and check on internet. He will find a porn sites. He will see a lot of brutal scenes.
And he will get a wrong idea about sex. Time will go on, he wanna do this. He will go to the party and get drunk and he will do exactly what he saw in porns: disrespect to the women, fucking hard, and using her as a toy.
Interesting is that, in China rapes are not that common. But its most populated country in the world. Why its not common? Coz pornography is prohibited there. Lets look at the statistics:
http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_rap-crime-rapes
http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_rap_percap-crime-rapes-per-capita

And saying that &quot;She was asking for it&quot; is a dumb BS. No one is asking to get hurt. Even if woman is wearing very sexy clothes doesnt mean that she wanna get raped, come on ! She just wanna be sexy, maybe feel sexy, maybe be admired etc.

Anyway guys are getting their first ideas about sex from porn movies, like gals getting their ideas about relationships from chick-flix movies.

Im feeling really sorry for her, and that what happened. It never suppose to happened :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe that rapes trigger pornography in mass medias.<br />
Lets say that 12 years old boy (or lil bit younger!) heard some times about sex in regular movie. But he doesnt know whats that all about, so he will take advantage of computer which he get last month and check on internet. He will find a porn sites. He will see a lot of brutal scenes.<br />
And he will get a wrong idea about sex. Time will go on, he wanna do this. He will go to the party and get drunk and he will do exactly what he saw in porns: disrespect to the women, fucking hard, and using her as a toy.<br />
Interesting is that, in China rapes are not that common. But its most populated country in the world. Why its not common? Coz pornography is prohibited there. Lets look at the statistics:<br />
<a href="http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_rap-crime-rapes" rel="nofollow">http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_rap-crime-rapes</a><br />
<a href="http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_rap_percap-crime-rapes-per-capita" rel="nofollow">http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_rap_percap-crime-rapes-per-capita</a></p>
<p>And saying that &#8220;She was asking for it&#8221; is a dumb BS. No one is asking to get hurt. Even if woman is wearing very sexy clothes doesnt mean that she wanna get raped, come on ! She just wanna be sexy, maybe feel sexy, maybe be admired etc.</p>
<p>Anyway guys are getting their first ideas about sex from porn movies, like gals getting their ideas about relationships from chick-flix movies.</p>
<p>Im feeling really sorry for her, and that what happened. It never suppose to happened <img src='http://vanae.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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