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SEXtalk with SkyyJohn, part 2:

Here’s the male vs. female perspective episode with SkyyJohn. Hanging out with him is never dull. Our humor together is super crude, silly and we cuss alot (I actually say a lot of profanity in person). So on this episode, he interviewed me on my thoughts on porn, strippers and other things. Let’s not forget that we ALL do it, so let’s stop pretending that we don’t and talk about it.
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I hope you enjoy this as much as the fun I had doing this interview!

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Comment by Chuck
2009-09-13 13:22:14

V’s boobs – Tantalizing! V, there’s no need to change a thing. You need to leave a little room for the imagination. If I want to pay attention to the subject of your videos, I will watch them multiple times. If I want to pay attention to your cleavage, I will do the same thing. ;D

Strippers – They can be fun but they’re usually a waste of money to me. I appreciate it much more, and get more out of it, when my lady strips for me.

Porn – I agree with V. There’s nothing wrong with it. In fact, I believe I’ve learned to become a better lover from it. Just don’t become addicted or obsessed with it.

Paying the bill – I totally disagree with SkyJohn. I almost never allow a lady to pay. I will always pay the bill for the first few dates and then I will only let her pay the bill, thereafter, on special occasions, such as my B-day or for my achievements. I will work harder or sacrifice something if I can’t afford it. I have been doing this since I began dating and I’ve never run into financial issues and I have almost always lived comfortably. Besides, I’m analyzing whether or not to move forward with the relationship during the first few dates. If I don’t like something about my date, I won’t spend any more money on her.

 
Comment by cliboi
2009-09-13 14:20:25

o V, u have wonderful friends.

ps. how about having a V * burgers and milk shakes meetup in Paly Ally / Mt View area. raise some money during this great recession?

Comment by Vanae
2009-09-13 15:11:05

perhaps.
v’stars have been requesting a meetup in the bay area.
might do that.

 
 
Comment by Locus
2009-09-13 14:43:51

“V” think like a dude!
CONDOMS ARE EXPENSIVE!!!
50 / 50 Makes up for that, FOSHO!
:P
PRACTICE SAFE SEX MY FRIENDS! LOL

 
Comment by Ronnie
2009-09-13 18:48:44

Yo V!

Keep working with SkyyJohn, he’s funny because he keeps it real! Like when he was talking about female serial daters,(the female version of a male player). I’m soooo
glad he brought that out.

Comment by shady
2009-09-13 19:42:53

yeah , your show is more interesting that way :) , and ehh….. naughty naughty naughty na nana nana na LOL !
and about paying the bill , I agree with skyyjohn until the couple mary then it will be the husbend responsiblity

 
 
Comment by nick
2009-09-13 21:50:55

interesting topic, v. you say its ok to watch porn as long as you’re not addicted.
i can say with 100% certainty that most guys with internet or cable tv don’t follow your pattern of once/twice every few months; they probably look more often. i don’t think i’d characterize you as a porn addict, so i guess my question is, do you think most guys are addicted? or are they gonna be measured differently?

Comment by Vanae
2009-09-15 16:31:45

hey v’star nick.
i think there’s a very small percentage of young males out there who are actually addicted to porn. so watching porn on a daily or weekly is fine, as long as it doesn’t get in the way of relationships or how they live their life.
V

 
 
Comment by martin
2009-09-14 00:39:53

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Re: boobs…unforgetable
Re: strippers.. nice…having a girlfriend doing it even better
Re:porn watching with girlfriend would be cool not a steady diet though
Re: paying the bill…I’m on the same page as you are on that..
The WOW at the top is for meeting you, talking with you and seeing you in action with V stars. Have a great day!

 
Comment by Cesar
2009-09-14 04:44:31

That SkyJohn is one Funny Dude Vanae!

Now on the subject of Boobs…More Than a Mouthful is a Waste! (;-) Except for Vanae’s though!

Once a month we make it a habit to get together with a few friends of mine and go to our favorite strip venue and watch Jelly Wrestling, which is far better than watching strippers.

On the subject of porn I agree with Chuck that it can be quite an educational experience, but tends to get boring after a while.

I have always been fascinated with girls Fisting themselves. Unbelievable How They Do That!

Now, about paying the bill…I agree with Vanae that on the first date the gentleman should pay as a way of showing your female date you are courteous, thoughtful and hence makes her feel secure.

As times goes on though, and you realize that you are serious about each other you should contribute equally in basically everything you do. This is especially true if both of you are working which enables both of you to set-up a financial plan for the future.

 
Comment by Cesar
2009-09-14 04:57:36

BTW, this is what happens if you watch too much porn

Don’t worry it’s in good taste

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m-Uf8lCJEOs

Comment by Victor
2009-09-14 09:29:04

That was pretty hilarious!

 
 
Comment by Keith
2009-09-14 07:20:31

Maybe some guys pay, so, if things don’t work out; you still end up with a pretty good reputation with the females. Or, at least one would think that.

Skyyjohn would say: Then why is your podunk country ass sitting at home with no dates. My answer would be: Females always have a point to make to a “guy”. Females love there missions. They piss bitch & moan all the while you’re not getting what they are saying. That’s the bonus of the situation.

Speaking of asessing. Maybe requiring dutch, & buying is the difference between provider, & being the person who sustains with sustenance.

There is a great line in the movie: malcom X, when Angela Basset’s character is introduced to Denzel Washington’s character. If you approach the question with vague application, maybe it will put perspective on these topics.

 
Comment by Victor
2009-09-14 09:31:47

Good Episode Vanae!!! I’ve actually always wondered if you did the cleavage episodes intentionally…lol! But yeah, with the whole porn thing, some guy commented about how dudes probably don’t really do that a couple days then dry for like months at a time…I’ll agree. I watch a lot of porn….but I wouldn’t say I’m addicted. I can stop anytime! Lol!

This put me in such a good mood. Thanks!

 
Comment by Levi from AZ
2009-09-14 13:57:35

SkyyJohn your so funny man.. I love you 2. Yawl take it to the limit and back and always make sence. Vanae, im a 20 male and i tune in as often as possible to here what ya got to say.. Love ya love da show. Keep it comming these people need ya. XOXO

Comment by Vanae
2009-09-15 16:33:56

glad you’re liking the show, v’star levi!
V

 
 
Comment by Jerome (Mrpinoy91)
2009-09-17 22:40:09

LMAOO! Dood. Vanae you and Skyjohn are freakin an aswome duo!

 
Comment by David
2009-09-19 02:41:01

I’ve been dating a stripper since February. It’s probably the most honest relationship I’ve ever had. It’s also based on a very clear line that keeps it entirely outside the fantasy (and money-changing) world of the club. No games, no pretense. Very refreshing.

 
Comment by Ronnie
2009-09-22 12:10:20

You have great boobs, V!

 
Comment by Ronnie
2009-09-22 12:14:29

I did not write that comment before some sleazy pig hacking into my computer must have! Isn’t that illegal, by the way?

 
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