vanae: happier you* guide

Sexless in the city

You're laying in bed next to her. You glance at her plump lips and now, you're getting aroused. YOU WANT HER. She looks at you and makes eye contact. Then she tells you..."I'm not in the mood". WTH! I recently received this email: "Dear Vanae, I love you on your site and youtube! Me: 29 ...

Game Dae Wednesdae: Gobblin’

Growing up in a Vietnamese family, we rarely had turkey for Thanksgiving. Instead, my mom would bust out my favorite Vietnamese dishes and lots of seafood. Personally, I prefer seafood over turkey ANYDAY! This year, my mum made fantastic lobster, banh xeo (vietnamese crepe), and steak. Yummified. Here's a photo of ...

8 Signs of an unhealthy relationship

We all been been-there-done-this! I know I went through one 4 years ago and came out of it stronger and here to share my experience. Unhealthy relationships are usually with the one we fell flat-on-our-face-for. So intense that you lose yourself! But you need to recognize the damage before becoming ...

Surprise: Free Ebook!

So I've decided to give you guys my v'book preview for FREE: Peep: Fuck Her, Fuck Him. (out at the end of December). This v'book is an excerpt of the full version of Fuck Her, Fuck Him that will be officially released in February '09. You can pre-order Fuck ...

Fuck Her, Fuck Him

The highlight of my day is receiving this surprise promo video that ERIC created for me and my v'book, Fuck Her, Fuck Him. Such a great video that captures the raw energy and the essence of goodness. What do you think of this video? I have a surprise for you coming ...

Overcome insecurities

My guy friend once told me that he was insecure about his calves. "Really?!", I replied. I would've never guessed that! Goes to show that most of the time, our insecurities are not obvious to people. Why? Because insecurities are hidden within the walls of our minds! Yet, sometimes we ...

Tell me a story…

"There once was a girl who loved baking gingerbread men. One day, one of her cookies sprang to life and bit her hand off to avenge the death of his fellow men. The end" That's the spontaneous story I replied to my friend when he posted in his gchat "tell me ...

V’STAR CONTEST!

Hey V'stars! I'm in Blogging Idol 2 and I want you to be part of it! Today, I'm launching the V'STAR CONTEST until 11/30 where the V'star who gets the most Vanae.com subscribers will win! The prize is: * The first and only colored hardcopy of my e-book, Fuck Her/Fuck Him ...