TIME IS THE BEST TRUTH
Sometimes time apart is the healthiest top test to realize if
you were meant to be together.
Every time a wounded heart needs to heal, it takes time filled with
good friends, hobbies and lots of self awareness in between.
Moving on from a job, past relationship or stage in life,
we develop and evolve into richer human beings.
Sometimes we wonder if we made the right decision and only TIME is the best truth for that.
V’stars, has time been the best truth for you? Share your story.
Yes it has
but for a different reason. I didn’t get into the college program I wanted because the space was filled up, so I have to wait until January. I wasn’t too happy about that but it has given me alot of time to focus on other things and even complete some major goals i’ve had. I also realized that there was a program that is better suited to my personality and skills. So all though i felt really disappointed, I think i’ve learned more about myself this past little while than at any other point.
yeah, i truly believe when it comes to opportunities. things happen for a reason and we get closer to what and where we’re suppose to be.
what’s the new program that suits you better?
It’s the C.A.L.L. program, which is an English course but it has a media component to it. So there’s alot of script writing, filming movies, making animated shorts. It’s a course that requires a lot of creativity and focus.
We must all admit to ourselves that our emotions alone cannot be the guide towards making a good decision in life. Yes emotions play an important role and our spiritual and physical balance but emotions should not be the controller of your life choices. Our emotions should be used to help guide us down there right path. An example, Who has ever walked into a room and has gotten a bad feeling? Usually more times than most, that feeling is telling us we should probably leave but because we have an unhealthy attachment to a particular person or a particular thing, we ignore our emotional warning (divine intervention) and get into trouble. (What caused are emotions to go off and warned us in the first place?) but staying with the theme… Taking a break from a toxic relationship is the best way to learn how toxic it is. Don’t be fooled into thinking that un successful endeavor, whether in school, political or in relationships are contained in a imaginary protective bubble. NO. If something is poisoning you, the toxicity that is produced spreads inadvertently by your own negligence to every and each aspect of your life. Slowly poisoning and infecting your right, your will and your potential to be successful. How many of us feel like a person is holding us down or even holding us back? How many of us are not living a life we love because we are not loving a life we are living? Self reflection, self motivation and even so confident is the culprit at hand that allows us to stay in these toxic relationships and at times it blinds us to the reality. But the real test comes when it is time to reenter that situation? Will you separate or assimilate?
Insightful. Good advice, utchat.
very true. my favorite part is “Taking a break from a toxic relationship is the best way to learn how toxic it is.”
thanks for sharing.
V
You can become an even better person during this time of self searching. It also helps broaden your interests! which is awesome!
exactly. self searching and embracing is key!
Yes, After breaking up with my ex girlfriend about 2 1/2 years ago, it took me a long time to recover from a broken heart. Eventually time healed me, but during that time I took my experience and learn from it. In the end, you become a more experience person when it come time for a new relationship with someone.
hey v’star jason,
yeah, i think we all share the same experience of recovering from being heartbroken. and it’s such a journey. a very worth journey
I broke up with a LTR a while ago…and I’m still not over it. I know that…but I had to hurt another woman to fully understand that. I’m sorry for that but I learned a lot. Now I’m dating casually and I’m very clear about this to every woman. Honestly, I don’t think it’s a good idea to get serious with anybody til you’ve known them for at least 6 months and so that’s what I’m doing, dating having fun and such but being clear that i’m not even in that headspace and won’t be for a long time. My only question is when will i be over her? And I guess time will answer soon enough…
all the advice are so on point. me and my first girlfriend she was black and spanish say we should just be friends because she was going to college. i hate her for awhile because i was truly hurt. im such a loving person why would someone hurt me like that(thinking to myself). even though the relationship was short but i learned SOOOOO much from it. after she left i found out that i have soooo many people that love me and appreciate me. Vanae like you said only time will tell. but right now ima just live my life knowing that im LOVED. i learned from her and im stronger because of her
Taking time for oneself can be a wonderful thing, especially after a relationship. It not only gives people a chance to fully heal from the relationship but to learn from it as well. Great topic!
This girl told me she really likes me but isnt ready for a relationship. I think we should give eachother some time apart. Good idea or not??
wow.. each time i come into this site, found something cool. my relationship right now is critical but better take this tip.. time.. i still love her but need to know if we can be able to be togheter.. hope to see what’s going to be then =’(