Comments on: Top 3 mistakes on online dating profiles

By: Greg

Greg — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 19:37:46 +0000

After checking out pics, the thing I scan for is sentence structure.

Most women start every sentence with “I …..”

I like the beach. I am looking for… I would like to meet… I am tired of men who…. etcetera.

To me, this comes off as lazy and unimaginative. Just another chick who is totally self-absorbed.

How much trouble is it to put some thought into your self-presentation? Ultimately, we are all seeking a companion who offers us value. By focusing on I-me-mine, you come off as a value taker.

By: Victor

Victor — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 18:00:08 +0000

Great stuff Vanae! Awesome tips. My facebook seems to get a lot of women interested and I’ll bet it’s because I was unconsciously doing the things you recommend here. Love what ur doing!

By: Anon

Anon — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 22:19:25 +0000

I’ve noticed alot of middle aged women don’t post
any pictures at all. Yes, its been said that guys are visual, but I think they do themselves a misjustice. Maybe they don’t have any recent photos, gained a few pounds, and think most guys want those anerexic stick skinny Cosmo model types.
But let me tell you I DO NOT!! Im in the Sir Mix-Alot club. I like my women THICK, with alot of junk in the trunk! The perfect measurements for me are 36-22-42,and most guys I know agree! So ladies get dolled up, post a pic, and let the REAL guys decide what looks good not Cosmo!

By: Vanae

Vanae — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 06:42:17 +0000

hola,
it’s actually taking place on SUNDAY, JANUARY 31st in the south bay. as mentioned above, the exact location will be revealed to those who register.

hope to see you there!

By: Vanae

Vanae — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 06:40:26 +0000

hey v’star chris,
the workshop will be in the south bay and the exact location will be revealed to those who register.

By: Vanae

Vanae — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 06:39:40 +0000

exactly.
flat= standard = easily overlooked

By: Matthew

Matthew — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 03:10:51 +0000

hello Vanie,

I notice you will have a workshop saturday Feb 20th I wsa wondering where yur workshop will be ocated at will it be in pala alto or somewhere else in south bay?

Matt

By: Chris Boscarino

Chris Boscarino — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 00:49:14 +0000

Good topic! I was asking you about this vis email once!
Where is your workshop going to be? I clicked through link and didn’t see it.
Chris

By: Maxx

Maxx — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 23:06:41 +0000

i think something is missing in that part

*Don’t post photos with a female in the picture (it makes

Anyway i think that most common mistake in online dating is being toooo flat. When i see people what they like to do is: hanging out with friends, watching tv and listening music; in that moment i have a feeling that i have to click this irresistible X button in top right corner.

And i dont even look on profiles whiteout photos coz i assume this person has something to hide or is just lazy didnt postin a picture.

Than i hate to see girls with a guys on the pictures. If its one that might be ok. But better not. If i see attractive women with same guy on 3 photos i assume that guy might be her bf or something like that.