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		<title>By: Onely</title>
		<link>http://vanae.com/to-be-single-or-not-to-be-single/comment-page-1/#comment-6303</link>
		<dc:creator>Onely</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 03:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bobby! Where have you been? Thanks for the plug! 
Christina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bobby! Where have you been? Thanks for the plug!<br />
Christina</p>
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		<title>By: Locus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Locus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jan 2009 08:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Applause Cassi!!!
Very well put! I think you said it best!!! Stick to your guns, I have mass respect for that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Applause Cassi!!!<br />
Very well put! I think you said it best!!! Stick to your guns, I have mass respect for that.</p>
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		<title>By: Locus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Locus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jan 2009 08:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great topic V. I am a single chap myself by choice. I took myself out of the game some time  ago. I don&#039;t put much thought into wanting to be in a relationship, and I don&#039;t ponder on &quot;what I could be missing out on.&quot; I&#039;m not particularly happy persay by being single, it just makes sence to be... Although I have alot of positive personal traits about me, and I like to think I&#039;m a relativly good guy, I don&#039;t see the point in inviting someone into my already hectic and somewhat stressfull world.
Hey being single kicks the crap out of being like my codependent bestie.... LOL she&#039;s a mess!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great topic V. I am a single chap myself by choice. I took myself out of the game some time  ago. I don&#8217;t put much thought into wanting to be in a relationship, and I don&#8217;t ponder on &#8220;what I could be missing out on.&#8221; I&#8217;m not particularly happy persay by being single, it just makes sence to be&#8230; Although I have alot of positive personal traits about me, and I like to think I&#8217;m a relativly good guy, I don&#8217;t see the point in inviting someone into my already hectic and somewhat stressfull world.<br />
Hey being single kicks the crap out of being like my codependent bestie&#8230;. LOL she&#8217;s a mess!</p>
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		<title>By: vanae</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>good for you girl!! hold on to your standards! hold out for quality.

=)
happy new year sweetie!
V</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>good for you girl!! hold on to your standards! hold out for quality.</p>
<p>=)<br />
happy new year sweetie!<br />
V</p>
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		<title>By: vanae</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:04:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey finley!!
welcome welcome!

isn&#039;t it funny how we are sometimes with this &#039;grass is greener&#039;. but i think if you&#039;re in a healthy relationship, you probably won&#039;t be peeking over to the other pasture.

=)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey finley!!<br />
welcome welcome!</p>
<p>isn&#8217;t it funny how we are sometimes with this &#8216;grass is greener&#8217;. but i think if you&#8217;re in a healthy relationship, you probably won&#8217;t be peeking over to the other pasture.</p>
<p>=)</p>
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		<title>By: vanae</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:03:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>aww thanks kei!
happy new year to you as well!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>aww thanks kei!<br />
happy new year to you as well!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: vanae</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:02:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>very true. being carefree and with someone you&#039;re interested in, it&#039;s the best feeling ever!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>very true. being carefree and with someone you&#8217;re interested in, it&#8217;s the best feeling ever!</p>
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		<title>By: vanae</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:02:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey bobby,
i&#039;ll have to check out those blogs!
V</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey bobby,<br />
i&#8217;ll have to check out those blogs!<br />
V</p>
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		<title>By: Vanae</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vanae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>exact-o-mundo david!
thanks for sharing.
vanae</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>exact-o-mundo david!<br />
thanks for sharing.<br />
vanae</p>
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		<title>By: Cassi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cassi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 22:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been single for 3 years. I&#039;m holding out for someone that will be right for me. And its remarkably hard with all the pressures from friends. I&#039;m amazed how many of my friends are like &quot;just do it! Just date them! Just have a one night stand!&quot; And I can&#039;t ever do that. I end up getting attached and stay. Then I&#039;m in a relationship I&#039;m not truly happy in. Its unnecessary drama. People are like &quot;why on earth are you still single?! You&#039;re a sweetheart!&quot; I&#039;m picky! I have certain standards that I consider fairly easy but amazingly a lot of people don&#039;t grasp these qualities. Living on a small island doesn&#039;t help things either. So I figure that I might as well stick out and remain single until I get off this island to place I&#039;ll settle in. Ideally, I want to travel while I can and study/work as much as I can before finding someone so there isn&#039;t a lot of separation anxiety. Still it sucks when those bouts of loneliness rear its ugly head. :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been single for 3 years. I&#8217;m holding out for someone that will be right for me. And its remarkably hard with all the pressures from friends. I&#8217;m amazed how many of my friends are like &#8220;just do it! Just date them! Just have a one night stand!&#8221; And I can&#8217;t ever do that. I end up getting attached and stay. Then I&#8217;m in a relationship I&#8217;m not truly happy in. Its unnecessary drama. People are like &#8220;why on earth are you still single?! You&#8217;re a sweetheart!&#8221; I&#8217;m picky! I have certain standards that I consider fairly easy but amazingly a lot of people don&#8217;t grasp these qualities. Living on a small island doesn&#8217;t help things either. So I figure that I might as well stick out and remain single until I get off this island to place I&#8217;ll settle in. Ideally, I want to travel while I can and study/work as much as I can before finding someone so there isn&#8217;t a lot of separation anxiety. Still it sucks when those bouts of loneliness rear its ugly head. <img src='http://vanae.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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