BE SURE TO SIGN UP FOR THE OFFICIAL EMAIL LIST on my homepage! This is a great start to the year with a real talk episode about sex and pleasuring women. Don’t get hung up about giving the female orgasms! …
The Best Fucking Guide: Bootycall Etiquette
Bootycalls…we’ve had them before and want them now. Not that I’m condoning or condeming bootycalls, but if you are in this situation currently, someone’s gotta tell you straight up…and that person is me. Please enjoy the new episode on Bootycall …
Get Frisky With Condoms The Right Way!
Most of you already know that I was a peer sexual health educator in college and from there, launched a non-profit (Rock Your Awareness) around educating and connecting young people to community resources for sexual health. I loved the work! …
When is too soon to have sex?
I’m having a blast in LA, thanks to my LA peeps (Heavenly & Mikey!). So this is the first part of SEXtalk with the funny & awesome Skyy John. What are your thoughts on this topic?
Sex for the first time
ASK VANAE FRIDAE Q: HI. When u have your first time experimenting with sex, does it really hurt ??? and what are the consequences because my boyfriend asked me if i was ready but i am not sure what to …
E’book Update!
Many of you have been asking me ‘How do I get your E’book: Fuck Her, Fuck Him?’. Simple! You can pre-order it for $15 by submitting payment through my paypal (vanaetran@gmail.com). I’ve decided to add more chapters to the E’book …
Dating your friend’s ex
Hey V’stars! In the last 2 weeks, you’ve been requesting this topic: ‘Should I go for my friend’s ex?’. This is very tricky area! Personally, I don’t believe in sloppy seconds and plus my girlfriends and I have very different …


