Holiday time is a time to reflect and appreciate all the greatness you have in your life. Appreciate yourself and your growth. Wishing you warmth and achieving the love that you want!
Happy Holidays from Vanae!
A great holiday deed that Mr. Chi City did:
LOL , I love the way the Indians speak English , it’s cute ^_^
ahaha i agree. most of my co-workers are indian. and they are ultra cool!
Hehe, love the video clip! Merry Christmas!!
merry christmas girl! good to hear from you!
vanae
Vanea:
You give pretty good advice on relationship issues, but rarely have I seen any jibbing video clips or advice addressing any flaws females may have or contribute to these issues.Your videos of all these dillusional looser guys are kinda funny, but one sided.
Making all thing “EQUAL” I feel maybe you should focus a little more on famales flaws as well. I used to be a singles minister, and believe me when it comes to relationship expectations women are far, far more dillusional.
If you dont believe me, place yourself as a fly on the wall. Take a written survey from a small group of 10 to 20 people (preferably those you know) with an equal number of unmarried heterosexual males, and females between the ages of 18 – 40 from a variety of social demographics,(i.e. ethnicity, professional status, physical stature, attreativeness, etc.) asking what each sex wants from the other to be
in a romantic relationship. Then once again place yourself as a fly on the wall in several group settings. Encourage discussion on this topic videotaping the same people, first in a same sex group, then later in a mixed set group (do not have mix the groups sexually at first because it can influence the answers, nine times out of ten the guys or girls won’t open up completely because they may be trying to impress someone in the group of the opposite sex, or the guys may be afraid of a verbal ambush from the women) collect and examine the data and you’ll see a great disparity not only in quality but in quantity.
Overall primarily, the men will be judged by thier bounty (income), and women by thier beauty(physical attractiveness), other requirements will be secondary but the men will have to measure up to alot more in in respect to the expectations considering or appearantly in spite of what each wants to get from the other, or how she measures up
The women, no matter how old, ugly, fat, ditsy, frumpy, clingy, psycho, bitchy, slutty, spoiled, or materialistic or shallow she may be. will tend to have these extensively long, romance novel, fairy tale lists of qualifications they want in a man.
Unfortunately, to thier detrement most women do not realize the triviality of this never ending list untill they are menopausal and no longer considered as sexually viable
Thank you Ron! You & I know that is a high percentage of true, but it would take 20 years to prove that to females, & by then, females would have changed their minds, the subject, & their hair colour so many times that they would still be confused!
Seriously, where are the females who just want raw quality, intelligence, & talent.
i get a lot of request to provide advice for women! of course, as a female, it’s easy for me to articulate what women or i want/ don’t want.
starting 2009, i’ll gear my more advice towards females. in the meanwhile, i’d love to hear any advice guys want to dish out to the ladies!!
pick a topic and we’ll rock it.
Vanae
I love your web, venae.
gracias
Wow that post had to take some time to write, Ron. Yes, your right that it does seems that Vanae writes to the male demographic, but maybe that’s possibly due to the majority of her audience are guys. However I seen other posts by women on this site and youtube as well.
To all disillusioned people in whatever sense that society tries to beat on. Women and Men, both are judged in different ways with generalizations and double standards, which is in itself wrong. A person with a good projection of life can that he’s/she’s qualities are not who you are, but achievements and drive draws people into you. I could tell a joke and have the whole room laughing, except you. But I can also look at you from across the room and make you blush with self-projection: good posture, strong eye contact, and slide in there a simple smile, while your at it.
You are right that people don’t know what they what out of life, but its only due to them not exploring what’s really out there in the world for them to experience and love. There are those who do find their true loves and fairy-tales coming true, its because they draw people in, not by distance themselves with their so called flaws. Just because there isn’t a Santa Claus doesn’t mean that we all can have a little of Old Saint Nick spirit in us. Which brings me to why I first wanted to post, the Mr. Chi City vid was so so funny that I had to write and say thanks for the laugh.