Comments on: Sideline guy

By: German

German — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:52:17 +0000

Well, hi Vanae.
i sort on the same track as Yao, i did try to tell her i like her the first weeks we became friends by email and now i think it was a mistake. She did answer with the lets just be friends/no ready for commitment thing.It hurt, but we never really talk about it after that.

Yet, i thought it was because she didint know me that well cause i was more shy and immature than i’m today. Now, I’ve been changing most of those problems with me, and i have goals in life and i tell her about those goals, she tells me hers.

However, i’ve been meeting people, so its great, but i still want to be with her or at least a couple of dates, not just with her friends. In the end, i think its just gonna be her loss and i will find someone eventually.

By: Yao

Yao — Fri, 08 May 2009 03:42:59 +0000

well I’m side line guy, after I watched the video, I totally fit in the question…… I felt that I should move on with my life couple weeks ago. but the relation between me and that girl I’ve been liking for 4 years haven’t brake yet…. I don’t know if I should talk to her about this( still wanted to be friends after all these years) or just ignore her even tho I see her in church.

By: Isaac

Isaac — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 04:11:48 +0000

wen u enter the site on the upper right it says contact me u click that and thats it.

By: Dillon

Dillon — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 22:20:29 +0000

Yo dude its good to moove on n it is reeli hard to do it but i think you could be strong enough to do it. by the way how do you write to the Ask Vanea Fridae thing?

By: Isaac

Isaac — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 15:40:16 +0000

u know wat i think ur right lol. Should of came up with something else.

By: Jim

Jim — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 06:18:55 +0000

Sounds like you got that from Rocky Balboa where he was talking to his son about how life ain’t about how hard you hit but about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward…

By: Isaac

Isaac — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 05:45:58 +0000

This goes out to all the fellas who are the sideline guy. Like Vanae said move on and forget about her that special someone will be out there. U may not find him/her today/tomorrow,next week,next month, or next year, but u will find that person one day and wen u do u will feel blessed. If anyone is going through this forget about her and press forward and continue on with ur goals in life because really nothing hits harder than life its not all flowers and rainbows its ugly its hard and it will beat u down. Anyway if ur the sideline guy break away now because it can keep u there perminantly if u let it keep seeing other people and u have to get over it as well because if u dont it will have serious affects on u physically u will look crappy mentally ull be weak yes it will hurt u inside but once u forget about her u will be ok and u will also feel that it was the greatist decision u ever made and it will suck in the begining but u will be ok after a couple of days and just live ur life have fun experience new things u only live once in gods beautiful green earth dont take it for granted and vanae ur the best relationship guru anyone can ask for i fully recomend you. I sent u a message a weak ago hopefully u got it i sent it here just to let u know.

By: Vanae

Vanae — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 22:41:58 +0000

exactly. it applies to both genders.
we careful of your heart and know your self worth

By: Vanae

Vanae — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 22:41:09 +0000

i totally agree, patty

By: Vanae

Vanae — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 22:40:53 +0000

ah yes, glad to know this advice helped you tom.

thanks for being there from the beginning
V