Comments on: Sexless in the city http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/ The freshest coach to empower you for love and life. Thu, 09 Sep 2010 10:54:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Corey Chapman http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-7605 Corey Chapman Wed, 28 Jul 2010 15:47:04 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-7605 eveyone should not always resort to divorce when there are misunderstandings. everyone should always save their marriage.;~~ eveyone should not always resort to divorce when there are misunderstandings. everyone should always save their marriage.;~~

]]> By: Bradley Thomson http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-7488 Bradley Thomson Sat, 03 Jul 2010 03:59:45 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-7488 the best way to save your marriage is to have good communication and understanding with each other.;;: the best way to save your marriage is to have good communication and understanding with each other.;;:

]]> By: Rick http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-2931 Rick Wed, 04 Mar 2009 05:50:23 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-2931 Talk to your wife. Get counseling. If you can't worok out some common ground in your sex life with your wife, then you need to decide how important your wife is to you. If sex is more important to you than she is, then get a divorce. Don't screw around. If your wife is more important, than buy some KY and start stroking. Talk to your wife. Get counseling. If you can’t worok out some common ground in your sex life with your wife, then you need to decide how important your wife is to you. If sex is more important to you than she is, then get a divorce. Don’t screw around. If your wife is more important, than buy some KY and start stroking.

]]> By: jaydi http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-2026 jaydi Mon, 08 Dec 2008 02:02:29 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-2026 Dear sexless in the city, Im confused here, whats the issue, you were saying that your woman has high sex drive and that she might cheat, is that right?Or ar you contemplating to find an excuse to cheat.Man, either way you lose, We man tend to have ego as big as the universe,look in the mirror and ask yourself this question, is it me or is it her? Are you bored with her,marriage is like planting a seed to your favourite plant or taking care of your favourite pet, it needs nurturing and a real lot of work and of course love. i dont mean to tell you what to do with your life man, cause whatever you decide will have implications good or bad. The word value is overrated,till its loses its true value.If you still value and honor her work and build your marriage,nurture it most of all never give up on yourself and your love one. Love wins all Dear sexless in the city,

Im confused here, whats the issue, you were saying that your woman has high sex drive and that she might cheat, is that right?Or ar you contemplating to find an excuse to cheat.Man, either way you lose,

We man tend to have ego as big as the universe,look in the mirror and ask yourself this question, is it me or is it her?

Are you bored with her,marriage is like planting a seed to your favourite plant or taking care of your favourite pet, it needs nurturing and a real lot of work and of course love.

i dont mean to tell you what to do with your life man, cause whatever you decide will have implications good or bad.

The word value is overrated,till its loses its true value.If you still value and honor her work and build your marriage,nurture it most of all never give up on yourself and your love one. Love wins all

]]> By: vanae http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-2004 vanae Fri, 05 Dec 2008 17:02:56 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-2004 yes! V yes!
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]]> By: vanae http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-2003 vanae Fri, 05 Dec 2008 17:02:30 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-2003 exact-umundo! ;) exact-umundo!
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]]> By: vanae http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-2002 vanae Fri, 05 Dec 2008 17:01:56 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-2002 i love it. keep on giving. bobby, how did you upload a photo to your comments? i love it. keep on giving.

bobby, how did you upload a photo to your comments?

]]> By: vanae http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-2001 vanae Fri, 05 Dec 2008 16:59:44 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-2001 welcome welcome! welcome welcome!

]]> By: tigerjoe http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-1943 tigerjoe Wed, 03 Dec 2008 02:15:24 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-1943 make an affair ? I think it's a wrong way... hahaha.. better u try be more romantic, I think maybe she had a problem, maybe about she's job or something, try to figure out, if u can help her to solve her problems , than u'll see ... woman can keep her problems for years.. hahaha so just figure out. If she still worried bout her problems than maybe it make her mood bad for ( u know what i mean ) make an affair ? I think it’s a wrong way… hahaha..
better u try be more romantic, I think maybe she had a problem, maybe about she’s job or something, try to figure out, if u can help her to solve her problems , than u’ll see …

woman can keep her problems for years.. hahaha
so just figure out. If she still worried bout her problems than maybe it make her mood bad for ( u know what i mean )

]]> By: Lee http://vanae.com/sexless-in-the-city/comment-page-1/#comment-1936 Lee Tue, 02 Dec 2008 19:59:17 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=947#comment-1936 In reply to the Sexless in the city situation: I agree with Vanae, never be unfaithful to your wife, because it will definitely be the end of the relationship and it will destroy you completely, which will be very hard to recover from. Be faithful to your vows! Let me just throw this in by saying that masturbating should not be used as a quick fix, because it involves some degree of unfaithfulness when you're fantasizing about another woman. The question is how soon after will you go from fantasizing to actually having a real affair? That’s just my personal opinion. Dude, obviously you're stuck between a rock and a hard place, but there is still hope for you. Don't be pressured or let your frustrations lead you to making a mistake that will cost you big time. How true it is that whatever you sow is what you'll reap. Start sowing good seed and instead of quickies start building attraction and sexual tension throughout the week all the way up to the moment you make your move with your wife for some amazing sex. Learn how to please her (by communicating with her and learning techniques from successful studs, lol...) and take that attitude of wanting to please her before you get your rocks off. I don’t know if that’s the your problem, but if it is you’ll get amazing results. Vanae gave you some great advice and there are a lot of unanswered questions that needs an answer to before your problem will be fixed and the only way is to communicate with your wife. Who knows it may be a thyroid problem or another medical reason that causes her to feel tired all the time, which lowers her sex drive and nothing personally against you. Hang in there and you be the hero by taking the effort of saving your marriage. Don't be such a wimp and give up so quickly. Yes, I know easier said than done (been there done that) and we all fail sometimes and I guess that's why brand new days were created. Love you, Lee In reply to the Sexless in the city situation: I agree with Vanae, never be unfaithful to your wife, because it will definitely be the end of the relationship and it will destroy you completely, which will be very hard to recover from. Be faithful to your vows! Let me just throw this in by saying that masturbating should not be used as a quick fix, because it involves some degree of unfaithfulness when you’re fantasizing about another woman. The question is how soon after will you go from fantasizing to actually having a real affair? That’s just my personal opinion.

Dude, obviously you’re stuck between a rock and a hard place, but there is still hope for you. Don’t be pressured or let your frustrations lead you to making a mistake that will cost you big time. How true it is that whatever you sow is what you’ll reap.

Start sowing good seed and instead of quickies start building attraction and sexual tension throughout the week all the way up to the moment you make your move with your wife for some amazing sex. Learn how to please her (by communicating with her and learning techniques from successful studs, lol…) and take that attitude of wanting to please her before you get your rocks off. I don’t know if that’s the your problem, but if it is you’ll get amazing results.

Vanae gave you some great advice and there are a lot of unanswered questions that needs an answer to before your problem will be fixed and the only way is to communicate with your wife. Who knows it may be a thyroid problem or another medical reason that causes her to feel tired all the time, which lowers her sex drive and nothing personally against you.

Hang in there and you be the hero by taking the effort of saving your marriage. Don’t be such a wimp and give up so quickly. Yes, I know easier said than done (been there done that) and we all fail sometimes and I guess that’s why brand new days were created.

Love you,

Lee

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