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Self discovery

Ever have those moments when right after something happens, a lightbulb goes off? Whether you learn not to do that again or became more aware of yourself? This, my dear, is the process of evolving as a person and part of your self-discovery.

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Events are constantly cycling…our career changes, new relationships, arguments, joy, loss, and so is self-discovery! It’s important to set time for ‘self discovery’ because YOU are your best investment. I wanted to share this article piece of DailyOm with you:

DailyOM article:

“Inherent to our being born is that we are here to observe, learn, and grow. Accompanying this is a built-in guarantee that there will be mistakes and misadventures along the way. And while it is only natural that we may sometimes become overwhelmed, especially when the lessons keep coming, it is important to remember that learning to understand yourself and your world is an ongoing and active process where the journey is more important than the destination. Every lesson is intended so you can become more of who you are. And as you grow through this self-discovery, you begin to create your own instruction manual. The “how’s” and “why’s” are yours to discover, and part of the beauty of being alive is that these rules are always changing.”

My self-discovery: Though this process is on-going, every year about 1-2 times, I consciously stop my tracks to reset for healthy reflection. I think about:

What makes me happy
How I have evolved
What do I need to take away to be more complete
My priorities: How I want to spend my time
What I want to do to develop myself even more
Re-identify my goals and passions

What was the most recent thing you discovered about yourself?

Vanae’s tip of the dae: “Discover yourself and embrace your life’s lessons, and your instruction manual will create itself.” (shared by DailyOM)

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4 Comments »

Comment by bobby
2008-11-19 21:55:15

I realized that all the advice that I get about how to be a player isn’t really for me. I am happy being myself.

 
Comment by vanae
2008-11-20 04:10:27

@ bobby- high five* that’s one of the best discoveries. being true to oneself and being happy at it.

 
Comment by eva
2008-11-22 05:13:33

i discovered that i actually love people. i always told myself i wasn’t a people person, but it was just an excuse to hide myself from the world. i am learning to put myself out there more, but it’s so hard… i hate feeling so vulnerable.

 
Comment by DC
2009-02-24 09:51:41

I just wanted to thank you. I saw one of your videos on you tube about something and it inspired me to start blogging so i just signed up really quickly and starting rambling and it made me feel so relieved for no reason at all. I know this is kind of a random place to post this but i couldn’t find the appropriate place.

 
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