Okae, this applies to men as well. But a VERY COMMON issue men bring up to me about relationship is: insecurity. Sometimes, our emotions are so intense that we just don’t know how to deal with the feelings towards our significant other. Often times channeling this intensity and coming off as overbearing, insecure and sometimes, just crazy.

Other times, it has to do with our deep-rooted issue of trust, childhood and low self-esteem. Which takes patience to help address and might even need professional counseling to uncover. Other times, that person is just too damn irrational and imbalanced, that it’s not even worth yo’ time.

But seriously ladies: being insecure and being skeptical will only drive him away. Be patient. He doesn’t have to tell you or do it right at the exact moment you want to hear it. Have trust in him. Know that he’s with you for good reason…he’s wise enough to recognize that you’re hot commodity. And if he treats you any less than that, leave him.

At the same time..

Men: You don’t realize that it only takes very simple things to reassure your lady and keep her happy. All you have to do is ask her “what can i do make you feel better?” and give us verbal compliments/confirmation.

That’s it. Direct. We give you answers to exactly what’ll make things better. Voila!

Okae, here’s a funny and sorta exaggerated video of how insecure girlfriends act, but it should be an eye-opener to see it from an outside perspective.

V’stars, let me know which moment in this video that you can relate to (either you had your ex/gf do that, or you’ve said some of it yourself)