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How to initiate

There’s 3 areas of initiation:
1. Approach and initiating a conversation in person
2. Initiating to show interest and ask someone out on a date
3. Initiating physical intimacy

V’stars, comment below on other tips you have for initiating!

Here’s the new Vanae.com episode on initiating and thanks for your v’mails!
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13 Responses to How to initiate

  1. ken says:

    date and time – i’m gonna remember that one

     
  2. John says:

    “Another three years may pass before poles mature from soft starch into hard bamboo.” lolz -I know I’m stupid, but I thought you might actually find it funny too (with
    your witty sense of humor) If I posted it on You Tube, I would have got thumbs down. Hope your week is going well and HAPPY HALLOWEEN!! My favorite holiday : )(even though technically it’s not a holiday)

     
  3. Victor says:

    Totally commenting from Portland OR!!! I’m here for a nerd conference. Good Vid, Vanae!!!!

     
    • Vanae says:

      hey v’star victor,
      thanks for the greetings from good ol’ portland!
      i have yet to go there! perhaps i should do a workshop there.

      thanks V!
      from another V,
      vanae

       
  4. Jonsi says:

    Fortune teller, huh? That’s interesting. I am going as a weatherman. For you, I am predicting some flurries of passion (and if your costume endows you with a shade of the sexiness you possess in this video — and I’m not kidding, there is something subtle and sincere going on more than normal — record levels of getting it on).

     
    • Vanae says:

      haha oh john.
      aren’t you a doll and tapping into your spidey-sense.

      fortune teller was a big hit, esp since i was giving tarot readings and was very accurate. had a long line of people. and it was super rewarding.

      :)
      what was your costume?

       
  5. Ray says:

    You looked super cute in that vid. I was sick this Halloween, so I was dressed up as my bed. :p

     
  6. Paul says:

    Hey great video. I been subsciber for a while at youtube but only recently to this site. Have been following a lot of your advice. Have found it very helpful. Yhis vid tells a lot about initiate, but not actually tell about initiate intimacy – the first kiss. I would relly like a little help here, but realise that it is probably a whole other topic for a very long video LOL

     
  7. Anon says:

    I think this video is a GREAT thing you’re doing for the guys. I just hope it catches on, especially with women under 40. At 34, My unfortunate experience has been, dried up, wrinkled, and out of shape COUGARS have no trouble with this. The thing is, most guys I know dont like these old biddies hitting on them.

     
  8. Gabriel says:

    hi so what do i do after im like in a party and i run out of stuff to say?u now, would appreciate a little advise :) ohh and grats on youre website :)

     
  9. Josh says:

    hahahah “fuck shit balls”

     

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