Comments on: How to deal with cheating http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/ The freshest coach to empower you for love and life. Thu, 02 Feb 2012 20:36:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Itumeleng http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-7266 Itumeleng Thu, 20 May 2010 11:44:56 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-7266 I understand it wasn't your intention to do what you did.Is because the love you have for your boyfriend. Its hard to deal with stress or rejection so could do anything wrong to avoid that. Dont 4get that once a cheater always a cheater so make sure that you cheat again because at the end of the day the guilt is going to be with you. Work hard on your relationship. I understand it wasn’t your intention to do what you did.Is because the love you have for your boyfriend. Its hard to deal with stress or rejection so could do anything wrong to avoid that. Dont 4get that once a cheater always a cheater so make sure that you cheat again because at the end of the day the guilt is going to be with you. Work hard on your relationship.

]]> By: bim http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-7015 bim Mon, 05 Apr 2010 04:46:29 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-7015 I remember you saying that if life is a continuous learning process, then being imperfect is a prerequisite. Since we are imperfect, there is something missing from us or our partners. So Cheating begins when you start looking for that something our partners don't have. And I definitely agree with you that people change. I remember you saying that if life is a continuous learning process, then being imperfect is a prerequisite. Since we are imperfect, there is something missing from us or our partners. So Cheating begins when you start looking for that something our partners don’t have. And I definitely agree with you that people change.

]]> By: Kel http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-6965 Kel Fri, 26 Mar 2010 08:43:31 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-6965 Somebody please help! I cant stop crying. Things havnt really been great with me and my boyfriend. Hardly ever see him, and feels like im the one making an effort all the time. But, last night, i ended up sleeping with someone else, and now i feel really bad. And i mean reaally bad! It's made me realise how much my boyfriend actually means too me! This is the 1st time i have ever cheated..on anyone! Somebody pleasse help me¬ I dont know what too do! Somebody please help! I cant stop crying.
Things havnt really been great with me and my boyfriend.
Hardly ever see him, and feels like im the one making an effort all the time. But, last night, i ended up sleeping with someone else, and now i feel really bad. And i mean reaally bad! It’s made me realise how much my boyfriend actually means too me! This is the 1st time i have ever cheated..on anyone! Somebody pleasse help me¬ I dont know what too do!

]]> By: Martin http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-6371 Martin Mon, 18 Jan 2010 16:17:13 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-6371 My Best friend had a relationship with a girl, I looked like they were perfect for eachother, they matched right away, but both were a bit foolish, what made them break up was that they didn't talk to eachother, when something happened. Many times I had to fix it because both were stubborn. Till then at a party one got drunk and went on kissing another. After what there was quiet period for 1 month, after what, it was breakup time. My suggestion is that the MOST important rule in a relationship is communicating, talking to your love about everything. That's how comes trust and how people actually understand eachother. My Best friend had a relationship with a girl, I looked like they were perfect for eachother, they matched right away, but both were a bit foolish, what made them break up was that they didn’t talk to eachother, when something happened. Many times I had to fix it because both were stubborn. Till then at a party one got drunk and went on kissing another. After what there was quiet period for 1 month, after what, it was breakup time. My suggestion is that the MOST important rule in a relationship is communicating, talking to your love about everything. That’s how comes trust and how people actually understand eachother.

]]> By: Em http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-6310 Em Sat, 09 Jan 2010 23:41:15 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-6310 Hey, I think you made really valid points in this. I'd also like to mention, that the significant other of the the person cheating, should NOT go after the person they cheated with, whether or not they knew. I was cheated WITH and I got hurt, I can assume other people who are cheated with get hurt too when the person who cheated with them decides to be done with them. I agree from one of your videos that people with significant others are off limits, and there really is no excuse, but sometimes three people can get hurt in those situations. Hey, I think you made really valid points in this.
I’d also like to mention, that the significant other of the the person cheating, should NOT go after the person they cheated with, whether or not they knew.
I was cheated WITH and I got hurt, I can assume other people who are cheated with get hurt too when the person who cheated with them decides to be done with them. I agree from one of your videos that people with significant others are off limits, and there really is no excuse, but sometimes three people can get hurt in those situations.

]]> By: daVid http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-6067 daVid Fri, 18 Dec 2009 16:25:24 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-6067 If a woman would get to a point where she would let her man 'cheat' with a woman they both agreed on then she would be one powerful bitch! And--no doubt-- be a beautiful, wise, spiritual and enlightened woman. I know that is too much to ask for in today's female media-savvy population but it should be something that a special woman who seeks never to be hurt again to strive for in her lifetime. You might discover what is true love. If a woman would get to a point where she would let her man ‘cheat’ with a woman they both agreed on then she would be one powerful bitch!

And–no doubt– be a beautiful, wise, spiritual and enlightened woman.

I know that is too much to ask for in today’s female media-savvy population but it should be something that a special woman who seeks never to be hurt again to strive for in her lifetime.

You might discover what is true love.

]]> By: Jaxck http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-5995 Jaxck Sat, 12 Dec 2009 09:05:52 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-5995 I just caught my girl in bed with another guy last night. she was drunk and she wasnt thinking. i really like her but i just dont think i can trust her anymore. is there any point in trying? I just caught my girl in bed with another guy last night. she was drunk and she wasnt thinking. i really like her but i just dont think i can trust her anymore.

is there any point in trying?

]]> By: Maui http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-5090 Maui Thu, 24 Sep 2009 00:54:39 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-5090 This is true. Once a cheater is NOT always a cheater. I cheated on my ex. The girl I was with for over 5 years. After doing so, it DID NOT feel good. I realized how much I hurt her and never knew how it felt until when it was actually done to me by a girl I truly loved. Since then, I never cheated on another person again. My first cheat was my last cheat. This is true. Once a cheater is NOT always a cheater. I cheated on my ex. The girl I was with for over 5 years. After doing so, it DID NOT feel good. I realized how much I hurt her and never knew how it felt until when it was actually done to me by a girl I truly loved. Since then, I never cheated on another person again. My first cheat was my last cheat.

]]> By: Rio http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-4064 Rio Sun, 07 Jun 2009 00:45:31 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-4064 The 3rd should be first "Don’t rush into a relationship" That is the most important rule!! To many rush in before they are truly ready for many reasons all of them wrong!! Seeing each other or dating is NOT a relationship. committing too fast to a exclusive is very bad as it has not allowed the people to understand or really "know" the other. A person just dating someone no matter how long without an explicit agreement cannot use the "cheat" card as they are only dating!! The 3rd should be first “Don’t rush into a relationship”

That is the most important rule!! To many rush in before they are truly ready for many reasons all of them wrong!! Seeing each other or dating is NOT a relationship. committing too fast to a exclusive is very bad as it has not allowed the people to understand or really “know” the other. A person just dating someone no matter how long without an explicit agreement cannot use the “cheat” card as they are only dating!!

]]> By: dEej http://vanae.com/how-to-deal-with-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-2499 dEej Fri, 30 Jan 2009 07:13:42 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1321#comment-2499 It's really hard to find out when somone cheats on you. You are very right that you need to cut off all ties and not obsess about it, I mean why feel bad about losing somone whowiuld do that to you??? Thanks Vanae:) It’s really hard to find out when somone cheats on you. You are very right that you need to cut off all ties and not obsess about it, I mean why feel bad about losing somone whowiuld do that to you??? Thanks Vanae:)

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