Comments on: How NOT to feel lonely after a breakup

By: Kingcut28

Kingcut28 — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 01:44:21 +0000

I am also going through a break up. Its been a long time coming and we both played with the idea of breaking up but never could stay away. We were happy for a good while until she left for school a couple states away. It broke my heart. I remember the last look she gave me before getting on the plane. I was so crushed and didnt care who saw a grown man cry. I soon realized that I couldn’t let her go and decided to move with her. What I expected while there was her attention and affection but it turned out that all her interest was in her studies and school events. I felt more alone there than without her. A month passed and I left. As soon as I got back home, I regretted leaving. I was a mess. Even after that we stayed together through this. But I could tell that the damage had been done and things would never be the same which I ignored. I kept fighting. I kept telling her how much I loved her and believed in us. She was different. Once again sad. Missing her smell her touch and not even able to see a time when I could visit. Finally we called it quits over a few text messages. So sad that it is reduced to this. Not in the same state no mutual friends. Like two passing ships in the night. But yet one of the most important people that I’ve ever met. She was so good to me, and I her. This is still very fresh and I still cry.
Never thought I could love so much. But now it’s time for me. My life starts now. A fresh start to a new me! Life is great and I’m so blessed to be who I am and family I have. Seek support, write your feelings in a journal, excersise, pray, sing, paint, go out and look good. Be confident and don’t even think about someone new. The best thrive comes unexpected. When your ready you won’t even know what hits you. Love isn’t automatic. Be happy for every breath alive. Strive to be whole and enjoy the ride.

By: aaron quintero

aaron quintero — Fri, 14 Oct 2011 02:50:11 +0000

Im going through this as well.. I loved this girl with all my heart and she finally told me that she just didnt love me like that and fell in love with someone else.. I took some time to grieve and I felt like this world was against me since all i ever did was focus on making her happy…. And thats the problem you cant make anyone happy only you can make yourself happy..With that being said im taking this time to be a better version of myself and finally focus on the things that bring happiness in my life.. Thinks like guitar playing, capoeira, photography, riding my motorcycle, living life.. once you get in touch with what makes you happy and realizing that you dont need this person youll be so much happier. Life is beautiful and full of amazing experiences.. Remember after every rainstorm there is a rainbow.. Bad things happen to us because greater things are coming.. Namaste!

By: Missy

Missy — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 09:57:11 +0000

Dear Missy

you will, it will take time but you will.
I’m going through the same things.. it’s almost 3 weeks now
slowly, slowly but you will

you just need to get yourself to start thinking you want to get over it first

By: Nicole

Nicole — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 00:38:38 +0000

Hey wat sud I do when I can’t get over a break up

By: Nicole

Nicole — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 00:34:31 +0000

Hey vanae wat kan I do when I can’t get over a break up

By: sarah

sarah — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 23:52:16 +0000

let’s face it, break ups are always hard. It’s a breavement which only time will aid heal. However you loved that person wants, and that hurts. Most probably you will always hold a flame for them. Dont hide away from that love, embrace it and share it. Its the only way to move forward. Dont be in denial to yourself. Just another one of life’s experiences . Like annoying noisey neighbours.

By: Wilbetro

Wilbetro — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 05:21:13 +0000

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By: Kiro

Kiro — Wed, 22 Apr 2009 14:45:04 +0000

It just takes a little bit of work and some change of perspective mate. Look in the mirror and ask yourself what you want to look like. And work at it. Change doesn’t come overnight. It’s through the process of change that we learn more about ourselves and what we can accomplish. And its through the struggle of changing that we discover what it is truly we want from ourselves and what we want to be. I won’t lie, it can be tough, and it can be a gauntlet. But through hard work and rough times, the reward at the end is greater.

By: Jordan

Jordan — Wed, 22 Apr 2009 00:23:01 +0000

Im not sure there is enof fish in the sea for me i need help and im not the best looking guy in the world

By: Kiro

Kiro — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 01:32:17 +0000

It’s tough I know. What worked for me is to get physical. And physical to the max. Gym every day, went back and trained for rostering at my old boxing gym. Signed up for a lot of friendly tournaments, sparring sessions, went rock climbing, extreme workouts at the beach, worked my body till I threw up (sometimes literally). OK, too much? Maybe. But overall, I got into shape, better shape than I was before, and it helped me get my mind of her and it made me feel better about myself and more self confident too. Try it out, and give yourself a little ego boost once in a while. Feel good about yourself.