Comments on: Hasn’t called back? http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/ The freshest coach to empower you for love and life. Mon, 07 May 2012 13:43:39 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Micheal http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-7593 Micheal Sun, 25 Jul 2010 09:07:33 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-7593 Hi Vanae,my situation is similar to the topic but not entirely the same deal.I have been talking to this girl from another school close to mine(we'll both be seniors in high school this coming fall) and we started talking online around the beginning of this year.We've talked almost every single day through messages but only 1 or 2 at most usually and every once in awhile we wont talk for a couple days but thats about it.We've gotten to be really good friends and have another friend in common that I didnt know about until just before school let out in june.Anyways,I guess this has to do with overthinking things as well,but I keep getting the feeling that we should talk like everyday.We both have talked about what we like,dislike(and we have alot in common,she's even gotten me to like a couple things I didnt think I would at first).But is it bad that I seem to like her a little too much right now when we cant meet in person anytime soon it looks like?And is it bad for me to worry over something as little her not writing back for a couple days?Thanks for the input,very appreciated. Hi Vanae,my situation is similar to the topic but not entirely the same deal.I have been talking to this girl from another school close to mine(we’ll both be seniors in high school this coming fall) and we started talking online around the beginning of this year.We’ve talked almost every single day through messages but only 1 or 2 at most usually and every once in awhile we wont talk for a couple days but thats about it.We’ve gotten to be really good friends and have another friend in common that I didnt know about until just before school let out in june.Anyways,I guess this has to do with overthinking things as well,but I keep getting the feeling that we should talk like everyday.We both have talked about what we like,dislike(and we have alot in common,she’s even gotten me to like a couple things I didnt think I would at first).But is it bad that I seem to like her a little too much right now when we cant meet in person anytime soon it looks like?And is it bad for me to worry over something as little her not writing back for a couple days?Thanks for the input,very appreciated.

]]> By: Richard Pham http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-7098 Richard Pham Wed, 21 Apr 2010 02:07:51 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-7098 Yeah it does hurt to get rejected...ignoring someone is a very bad thing in my opinion because it never brings closure. I notice girls do this a lot and though it happens to a lot of people this is reality. The best thing to do is not let it get to you. Something that helps is date as many people as you can because its called dating and your not in a relationship or anything so if one girl ignores you than you have plenty of other people to hook up with. Yeah it does hurt to get rejected…ignoring someone is a very bad thing in my opinion because it never brings closure. I notice girls do this a lot and though it happens to a lot of people this is reality. The best thing to do is not let it get to you. Something that helps is date as many people as you can because its called dating and your not in a relationship or anything so if one girl ignores you than you have plenty of other people to hook up with.

]]> By: kevin http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-6563 kevin Wed, 03 Feb 2010 04:32:34 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-6563 i just started talking to this girl about a month ago. from the beginning she loved me. everything about my conversation my looks my lips we even kissed and had a great time 1 night. but now throughout the days she really dont call and text no more like she used too. am i being too nice or am i shortly bt slowly running her away. also do i start getting mad or press the issue or does that make it worse... i just started talking to this girl about a month ago. from the beginning she loved me. everything about my conversation my looks my lips we even kissed and had a great time 1 night. but now throughout the days she really dont call and text no more like she used too. am i being too nice or am i shortly bt slowly running her away. also do i start getting mad or press the issue or does that make it worse…

]]> By: Tom http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-5169 Tom Wed, 07 Oct 2009 20:51:54 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-5169 Wow good looking out! Wow good looking out!

]]> By: Talon http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-2908 Talon Mon, 02 Mar 2009 21:24:06 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-2908 Hey! vanea well i gota question to ask you. say theres a girl and you work with her how would you be able to ask her out without causing any problems or awkwardness... Hey! vanea well i gota question to ask you. say theres a girl and you work with her how would you be able to ask her out without causing any problems or awkwardness…

]]> By: Denis http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-2672 Denis Wed, 11 Feb 2009 20:50:53 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-2672 Hey V Hey V

]]> By: Kevin http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-2657 Kevin Tue, 10 Feb 2009 23:04:49 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-2657 Something very similar happened to me recently, i tried calling and txting this girl I started to like (we work together)she didn't reply or call back. I can live with that but what bugged me is that she tried to act like nothing happened straight after when I saw her next, plus she told me a couple of weeks before that she liked me (we always playfully flirted with each other), in two different situations, I didn't know if she was joking and was kinda stunned, my feelings for her obviously grew from there. But I kinda came to the realisation that she was just playing with my head, thus helping me move on, which I have thankfully. Something very similar happened to me recently, i tried calling and txting this girl I started to like (we work together)she didn’t reply or call back. I can live with that but what bugged me is that she tried to act like nothing happened straight after when I saw her next, plus she told me a couple of weeks before that she liked me (we always playfully flirted with each other), in two different situations, I didn’t know if she was joking and was kinda stunned, my feelings for her obviously grew from there. But I kinda came to the realisation that she was just playing with my head, thus helping me move on, which I have thankfully.

]]> By: Calin http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-2650 Calin Tue, 10 Feb 2009 14:25:45 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-2650 I agree that the match may not have been good from the get go, but I feel that this approach shows confidence. If you think about it good looking women are constantly being hit on by men. I think you'll agree with me on at least that much. Therefore, I believe there has to be something that sets you apart from the rest. One of the ways to set yourself apart is confidence. All I'm saying is that from a glance women see me as average. In other words I'm just another one of those guys that asks for your number. Then when I leave the girl the message, she begins to think that maybe there's something more to this guy. It basically gives me another chance and allows me to rely on something other than my looks. If the girl doesn't call me back then she just wasn't attracted to me, plain and simple, and I believe that there has to be attraction for any relationship to function properly. I agree that the match may not have been good from the get go, but I feel that this approach shows confidence. If you think about it good looking women are constantly being hit on by men. I think you’ll agree with me on at least that much. Therefore, I believe there has to be something that sets you apart from the rest. One of the ways to set yourself apart is confidence. All I’m saying is that from a glance women see me as average. In other words I’m just another one of those guys that asks for your number. Then when I leave the girl the message, she begins to think that maybe there’s something more to this guy. It basically gives me another chance and allows me to rely on something other than my looks. If the girl doesn’t call me back then she just wasn’t attracted to me, plain and simple, and I believe that there has to be attraction for any relationship to function properly.

]]> By: vanae http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-2642 vanae Tue, 10 Feb 2009 03:43:12 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-2642 meat + honesty= a good burger =D V meat + honesty= a good burger

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]]> By: vanae http://vanae.com/hasnt-called-back/comment-page-1/#comment-2641 vanae Tue, 10 Feb 2009 03:42:17 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=1516#comment-2641 hey calin, why do you this approach works sometimes, and not at others? i feel that this approach is feeding into ego and using bait to get people who wasn't your match in the first place. thoughts? hey calin,
why do you this approach works sometimes, and not at others?

i feel that this approach is feeding into ego and using bait to get people who wasn’t your match in the first place.

thoughts?

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