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V’stars have been wanting to know more personal stuff about me, so here’s your opportunity to ask your question! It could be..

What do you think of..?
Personal questions…?
Trivia?
If you could choose between this or that..?
Are you…?

Leave your question as a comment below and I’ll answer a few of them in the next episode of Vanae.com show.

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66 Comments »

Comment by Israel
2009-04-27 09:00:51

Do you know how to dance any of the bay area dances? Like Thizz or Hyphy…

 
Comment by James Hudson
2009-04-27 09:36:36

What kind of guys do you usually want to 1. hookup with? 2. hangout with/do the friends thing? 3. want to date?

DO NOT GIVE THE GENERAL GIRLY ANWWER, “OH NICE ONES.” The answers should be in three separate parts. You should also integrate your opinions about different types of guys such as musical, ones piercings and tattoes, intellectual/studious, athletic minded, etc.

 
Comment by Wissam
2009-04-27 10:59:23

Are you related to Natalie Tran (community channel) on youtube?
:P

 
Comment by Reyes
2009-04-27 13:54:28

will you marry me

 
Comment by Nickie
2009-04-27 16:02:41

What can a person do to make himself/herself a better person, especially when single?

 
Comment by brent h.
2009-04-27 23:15:34

Is it okay to take medication for mental health while you are keeping it from you parents?

Comment by vanae
2009-06-08 02:20:38

picked & answered =)

 
 
Comment by tiff
2009-04-27 23:18:07

Do you like the show “Friends”? If so , do you have a favorite part/episode? ciao – Tiff

 
Comment by Jeremy
2009-04-27 23:42:47

Hi I am A Big Guy and am just wondering, I realize That humans are attracted to other humans that take care of themselves, None the less is there any hope for me I have enclosed a picture of me, thanks.

Comment by Victor
2009-04-30 15:44:22

How come our pics never work? R we just being shortbus about it? or should we use something like photobucket and not Myspace? Or is it this site?

Comment by Vanae
2009-05-02 23:17:39

you can email me your pictures, but i’m not sure if you can post your photo here with your comment (perhaps HTML might work).

i’ll ask my designer, AWESOME CHRIS

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Comment by Camellia
2009-04-28 00:29:26

Believe it or not the song that means so much to me is the song “somewhere over the rainbow” My cousin and I always really loved “the wizard oz” and we’d both be singing it all the time. I don’t know how many times we watched that movie but We had alot of good whenever I would see her or she’d sleepover we always had to watch it one more time. This is the one of the songs she would always sing.
Two months ago she passed away and well her mom asked me if I would play “somewhere over the rainbow” on the piano as a tribute to her. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do and every time I hear it It certainly brings back tons of memories.

and as for the question for you… If you could meet anyone who would it be and why?

Comment by Vanae
2009-04-28 01:26:45

wow camellia, that’s beautiful. and i’m glad you’re sharing it with us.
=)

Comment by gul
2009-08-23 17:29:49

hi how are u i miss u so much you look so sexy baby

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Comment by Bill
2009-04-28 00:39:13

What is your ethnic origin?

 
Comment by Bill
2009-04-28 00:40:25

And do you prefer Asian guys?

 
Comment by Zhi
2009-04-28 01:53:05

Sup.. damn getting greedy on this.. well we dont get many chances like this..

Curiosity.. how tall are you ? you can include with heels and without heels ^^.

how you maintain that skin complexion?

 
Comment by hannah
2009-04-28 04:23:27

are you really as emotionally healthy as you seem? how did you become such a guru? lol

 
Comment by Tom (Mediautomatic)
2009-04-28 04:42:32

I LOVE The song “Love You Want” by the Wailing Souls from the Cool Runnings~ soundtrack. always gets me feeling optimistic about my day. so that’s my inspirational song, i suppose whenever i hear browneyed girl i think of my friend that i like that currently lives in Japan. I actually have a lot of song associations. Ne-yo’s “because of you” reminds me of clubbing in Manila when i visited there. good times.

Oh and what’s your favorite color as well as animal?
and why haa. Cheers and much love V.

 
Comment by Willers
2009-04-28 10:34:41

Where do you see yourself in 2 years? Does your heart get so full sometimes that it feels like its going to explode? Which film/book/music has inspired you to become a better person? What is your definition of the meaning of life?

 
Comment by Angel
2009-04-28 13:03:01

HEY V… IM GLAD U HAD A GREAT WEEKEND MINE SUCKED BUT ANYWAYS… I HAVE A QUESTION WELL TWO ACTUALLY FIRST OF ALL YOU HAVE MADE SUCH A DIFFERENCE IN MY LIFE AND YOU ARE SUCH A GREAT BREATH OF FRESH AIR EVERYTIME I SEE A NEW VIDEO I CANT HELP BUT TO SMILE. IDK JUST MIGHT BE YOU AND YOUR OWN HAPPINESS THAT KINDA DRAWS ME IN TO YOU.

BUT ANYWAYS MY QUESTION IS HOW DO YOU GET OUT OF A HOLE… HOW DO YOU PICK YOURSELF UP WHEN YOUR ALL ALONE DEPRESSED SAD AND THERE’S NOTHING POSITIVE AROUND YOU AT ALL? IVE BEEN GOING THROUGH SOO MUCH IN THE PAST 2 YEARS AND IT SEEMS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO GET UP… :( BUT YEAH AND MY SECOND QUESTION…

VANAE, MARRY ME?? LOL TAKE CARE OK? THANK YOU FOR DOING WHAT YOU DO FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART.

Comment by vanae
2009-06-08 02:22:26

hey angel,
thanks for your super sweet comment. means a lot to me!

i will be doing an episode on ‘depression’ and how to get back up from it.

=)
love,
vanae

 
 
Comment by BOB
2009-04-28 15:26:49

Your so beautiful…Has there ever been a time where you have been strung along or dumped by a guy that you really liked? Or maybe he just wasn’t in the “right place”? I currently really like this girl and she is telling me that. It sounds like just an excuse to say she’s not into me, but maybe if this has even happened to someone as pretty and cool as you, it’s not just a line or an excuse, but the person really means it. If this has happened to you, I’d love to hear the details, so that I can apply it to what I’m going through. Thank u.

 
Comment by Alan C.
2009-04-28 20:50:53

Do men get intimedated to date you, based of your wonderful personality, your dating knowledge and your website postings? I know I wouldn’t :)

Comment by vanae
2009-04-29 19:30:07

hey alan, i get this question a lot. might answer this one. keep your eyes peeled for this wkend.

 
 
Comment by Kiro
2009-04-28 21:41:07

If you were to walk into a coffee shop, what kind of drink would you get, and would you reach out for that biscotti and or brownie on the shelf?

I have no particular favorite nostalgic song. I’m cursed with a photographic memory, so anything from smells, sounds, colors, temperature of the day triggers vivid memories.

 
Comment by cliboy
2009-04-28 23:05:25

What’s your pet name for guys you like but don’t like enough to date?

- Lotta gals calling me Sweetie, thinking means I’m on “the pet list’ not the ‘wannabe’ list

 
Comment by Lars
2009-04-29 00:36:09

This song always lifts up my day:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOpZID0ySkM
Bag Raiders – Shooting Stars

Anyhow, Vanae. Do you travel the globe a lot? I get the impression that you’re the type of person that loves to travel and experience other cultures. Also, do you enjoy drinking tea and if so what kind? I ask because I always offer tea when I have company over.

Comment by vanae
2009-04-29 01:17:59

oh, i am LOVING that track!!!!!

the vocals sound like it’s ‘cut copy’. you should email me a cool playlist.

=)
Vanae

 
 
Comment by Locus
2009-04-29 15:26:18

Citizen Cope – Let The Drummer Kick….
This was my ex’s fav song. GOOD times, BAD situation.

Now for the big question.

Pirate or ninja?

Comment by vanae
2009-04-29 19:29:13

ohh i like this question. might pick this one…stay tuned

 
 
Comment by shady
2009-04-29 22:28:11

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkD4zzoXsnY
this song reminds me of really good times when I was a little , I know you will like the video ( it’s not the official video for the song I personally loved it – and the officail too) .Now for the question :what do you think of black and white coulors ?or what does it symbolize for you ? …. oh and thnx for the kiss in the video ;)

 
Comment by Mark Troy
2009-04-30 04:13:57

Usher – Burn, that always brings back memories for me. My friends always seek advice from me and I try my best not to persuade but help them understand their situation…what is the best advice you have given anyone or what general advice would give anyone to improve their life? Take care.

 
Comment by Victor
2009-04-30 15:42:33

Ha, well I see an opportunity and I will seize it, carpe diem style and what not. So here are two questions I’ve been asking all the women in my life. They tend to start really fun and interesting conversations around here. 1: Have you thought about kissing a member of the same sex? 2: Have you thought about becoming a nudist? And since its only fair, I have thought about kissing another guy, despite being straight. And i like to be naked so i have considered trying a nude beach or something. And remember kids, its only awkward if you make it awkward! Keep it real.

 
Comment by Anthony
2009-04-30 15:58:13

i met a girl when i was 21 (im going to be 24 in 10 days, or depending on when you read this). she gave me a brief layout of her life. when she was 12 she dated a 26 year old man. at the age of 14 she got pregnant by him but miscarried. same thing happened at 15, by a different man. then at 16, same circumstances as 15. when i met her she was a couple weeks shy of her 18th birthday and STILL looking to have a baby. her reasoning; she was lonely and wanted someone to love. my question is this; do you think its fair to have a child under those circumstances? also, what do you think the emotional rammifications would be for her and the baby if she indeed became pregnant? my youtube channel is d3vilr0ckspolos in case you ever wanted to leave a personal message, despite me already being a subscriber to YOUR channel. namaste vanae.

 
Comment by Kevin Chen
2009-04-30 18:38:55

So i’m dating this girl for about a week now and i’ve just went to her birthday recently. The birthday host (her best friend) apparently thinks i’m taking *advantage* of her and doesn’t really like me at all. She told my gf “just don’t want you to regret it”. I’m pretty pissed off by that so what am i suppose to do, i tried to get along with her but shes being such a b*tch

 
Comment by Tony888
2009-04-30 19:38:26

Hey Vanae,

Not a question; just wanted to say your hair looks really great in your latest vid. Have a great day! :)

Comment by Vanae
2009-05-02 23:20:06

gracias tony! ;)

 
 
Comment by jaime
2009-05-01 08:33:33

http://vanae.com/connecting-with-you/


Hi, I just thought I would say that I did actually reply to your question regarding jaime – from vancouver at the posted link. Have a nice day!

Look forward to chatting with you at some point, though I am not really in a hurry so just keep it in the back of your mind and I will try to find a way to connect when it is convenient. Thanks, V! Jaime – from vancouver ;)

Comment by Vanae
2009-05-02 23:30:37

hey jaime,
i replied to your msg in that link =)

 
 
Comment by Iammikey
2009-05-02 11:49:42

I hear its easier to get hit by lightning then to marry after a certain age. (Evidence – Sleepless in Seattle movie).
I think its harder to find a new best friend after a certain age.
During elementary school age, your best friends would be a new person every recess.
During High school, whoever you sat beside in home room became your new best friend.
College it was your crazy room mate.
But after like the age of 30, its harder to get into new social groups. Its kind of like that Seinfeld episode where Jerry only has time for the friends he got. 95% of my friends are now married and do marry things. Now I got to ask my best mate’s wife if he can come out….
Whats your opinion?

Love your hair too!!

 
Comment by steveh..
2009-05-02 16:55:12

would you date anyone of your fans? ok thats a j/k question BUT in all seriousness cake or pie? ;d

Comment by vanae
2009-05-13 01:37:38

pie for sure!!!

i LOVE banana cream pie for Marie Calendars
AND
pecan pie!

 
 
Comment by Phi
2009-05-02 19:24:04

Hey Vanae!

I started developed interest for a longtime friend. What would be a good way to find out if she feels the same?

 
Comment by Bron
2009-05-06 08:36:59

Hi Vanae. I tend to be selective on whom i speak to. If i think they seem superior to me, i tend to avoid them. How do I ‘cure’ this issue?

Comment by vanae
2009-05-13 01:38:32

hey bron,
elaborate on ‘typically, who do you feel is superior than you?”

and ‘why do you feel that way?”

 
 
Comment by David H.
2009-05-15 17:58:19

Hey! I wanna know how i can stay in contact with other than ur website and i wanna know how to get a cute n’ hot girl without her bein a hoe?

Comment by David H.
2009-05-15 17:59:57

Oh yeah btw, i think u r cute too!

 
 
Comment by CyerBrian
2009-05-21 15:48:10

Oh My God! im A FuckN V-Star Babby!Wussup Vanae-neezy Lol oh yeah My personl Question is-When your Not online… who in the Hell is Given good Advice..and Do You any tattoo’s and would you get one and What? of! Hit me up Cause it’s Going Down Like a WHALE ON A BOAT!LMAO

Comment by vanae
2009-07-24 16:51:08

hey V’star CyerBrian, yes, i do have a tattoo. i actually just wrote about it recently.

=)

 
 
Comment by a friend
2009-05-24 04:05:46

hi vanae,

most of these comments are weird and creepy. stay true to yourself, even if it means not having a legion of v-stars…

a friend

 
Comment by a friend
2009-05-24 04:07:19

oh, and post more music recs – your taste in music is excellent

 
Comment by kareena
2009-06-07 05:21:08

my song for me and my boo is 21 quition by 50 cent its old but my boy can sing so its nice to have sing in my ear when im aggervated or somthin!

 
Comment by cody
2009-06-08 20:45:36

hi u r so cute. have u every thought about haveing a nude show. i am just wondering.

Comment by vanae
2009-07-24 16:54:06

only if you’d dress up in a cowboy suit and spank some cows.

 
 
Comment by Michael
2009-06-10 17:30:21

hi i heard this song on it jus made me think of u and all the advice u give on a regular basis. dont worry the link dosnt have a virus i promise i wouldnt do that 2 u. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0Ia07pu704

 
Comment by kpdiem
2009-06-26 15:41:08

Where do you found the time to do that, make youtube, answer to people and have your own life ^^

Awesome work, keep going :P

 
Comment by Danae
2009-07-06 03:29:10

Hey Vanae so funny my name is actually the same but with a D:)
i was just wondering what does it mean if a guy says “Well if you think that then i have no time for you?” This guy is really confusing me and keeps on sending me mixed singals..

 
Comment by brian
2009-07-13 01:26:02

Sorry 4 de fake email (:D) but i did NOT want to just give it to someone even if they are a genious. I watched the video “Be a Gentleman (Guide to Hot Dates)” and wanted to thank you for this help. You are really ammazing. Thank You

Comment by vanae
2009-07-24 16:51:34

you’re super welcome

 
 
Comment by Locke
2009-07-19 00:49:31

I don’t mean to be rude or too damn straightforward but i am not here for dating and relationship tips. I’m just want to let you know you’re freaking fine and we should go out sometimes.
Locke

 
Comment by Pramod
2009-08-07 10:53:03

what makes “you”..YOU ??? that i cant take my eyes off YOU …till yesterday i didnt knew you existed today the whole day i just watched ur videos ….i just loooooove looking at you while you talk …keep talking dosent matter what it is …give my hugs to your mom and dad for geting you down here from the heavens…buh bye

 
Comment by Danny
2009-08-24 22:54:02

hey vanae i have a qusetion for you, if you could live anywhere in the world no worrys about the cost or anything, where whould it be. much respect

xxx

 
Comment by Bruce
2009-09-23 17:13:25

Hi Vanae.
Saw you at SCOOPS the other weekend when you were visiting LA, but I saw that you were busy talking with one of your VStars and didn’t want to interrupt. Nice to see that special smile of yours that lights up the world around you and gets others to do the same. Couldn’t believe some of the flavors of ice cream that they had at SCOOPS. Avocado/Midori and Pistaccio/Fig — Wow…(tried them both) I’ll be back to try some other combinations. Hope you’ll be back to honor us with another visit to LA as well. Looking forward to your new e-book. Am I earning interest on the advance order I placed months ago?? Just kidding you, of course. Although HSBC Internet banking is offering 1.35% on their savings accounts with no penalty for early withdrawal and only $1.00 needed to open the account. Best deal in the nation right now, since most banks are paying what? – 0.125% annually. FDIC insured and all that good stuff. Time to clock out for the day, and stop thinking about finance.
I remember our dinner in San Francisco when I won the second auction sponsored by your generous heart and concern for others. You are quite a STAR yourself and the perfect role model for all the VStars. It’s the “smile” that captures all your fans. There’s only one Vanae who can do what you do. Your website keeps improving all the time. I’m anxious to see what you do when you find the animator you’re looking for. It should be quite spactacular. Best Wishes Always. –Bruce

Comment by Vanae
2009-10-25 00:21:38

hey there bruce,
great to hear from yah.
hopefully we’ll get to chat next time i’m in LA for a v’star meetup.

:D
vanae

 
 
Comment by TRIJICON
2009-10-27 19:29:40

how come beautyful intelligent/educated woman alwayz go for the (bad boy) type guyz?

 
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