Comments on: Getting involved with a married woman

By: George Jacob

George Jacob — Tue, 27 Sep 2011 02:28:30 +0000

It is one extreme to become too involved with a married woman. It is another extreme to never speak to her ever again. It would be nice if boundaries were set. Perhaps they should meet each others families and get to know each other.

By: vanae

vanae — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 08:13:03 +0000

thanks for sharing your thoughts, david. sometimes it’s really hard to see clearly or steer clear from this. but one must, for moral and heartache prevention

=)
V

By: vanae

vanae — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 08:11:25 +0000

hey khoa,
i’m sorry to hear that you’re going through this heartache. i wish you smooth healing and strength

Vanae

By: vanae

vanae — Sat, 11 Apr 2009 08:10:32 +0000

hey stevo,
thanks for sharing your experience with other V’stars!
i hope that others learn from your past.

=)
vanae

By: luiskun

luiskun — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:57:51 +0000

once i was involve with a girl which we were datin like a year an a half since she was girlfiend of someone i know and until a couple of months after she was married. and believe it was very painfull to me because i really trust her that i was the man who complements her but she refuse to broke up with his boyfriend and less whe he was her husband; so don’t date with married people a the begining coulbe like a kind of exiting fantasi but at the end. it becomes in to a painfull nightmare.

By: Khoa

Khoa — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 20:52:34 +0000

I am going through that right now and it is not pleasent..My wife of four yrs and together 14yrs has asked for seperation and after i gave it to her stated dating this guy that i assumed at the time when they were talking on the phone were just friends…Still going thorugh it now …oo yeah we also have a six year old daughter together…Its really hard on me…Do not do this to anyone cause it could cause permanent damage to someone and thier child

By: CaptiveAngel

CaptiveAngel — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 04:26:08 +0000

I was married 5 yrs.. and it happened to me… I WOULD NEVER CAUSE ANYONE the kind of pain.. THEY CAUSED ME…. all i have to say….

By: J.P.

J.P. — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 03:34:25 +0000

The only comment I have is, “Never ever get involved with a married woman or a woman that has a boyfriend.” That’s a big “NO”! Be respectful!

By: vanae

vanae — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 00:49:17 +0000

hey tonyA,

saying ‘you look delicious’ might be much, considering she’s taken. it depends on what’s your intent.

if it’s just to pay a compliment, then ‘you look outstanding today’ is perfect. no need to go further. if your intent is more than that, i wouldn’t go for it.

what guys don’t understand about unavailable chicks is that even if they ‘just’ have a bf, or having a bad relationship, they’re STILL IN a relationship. and she has to come to terms with it on her own pace.

i’ve seen SOOOO many guys get caught in the crossfire, become the SIDE LINE guy then get their heart crushed because he got involved with a chick who has a bf or just out of a relationship.

By: eleazar

eleazar — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 01:47:26 +0000

agree……its like walking around without a shoe on..your going to get stopped eventually. Another thing is that if somebody is married then that means that they loves their their couple enough to tie the knot so why would you wanna break the connection between them. by the way, what if the couple finds out and wants to kill you for doing it? All i can say is your screwed so its better to keep it in your pants.