each of us has probably been through the on-off, getting back with the ex process. i know i certainly have! and one major thing i’ve learned from it is…to take the time to know yourself before exploring a relationship with your ex or anyone for that matter. you must be ok with being alone and wanting to be in a relationship because the person is right for you.
normally, i would discourage going back (because life is about moving forward), but lately, the most common request is ‘how do i get back with me ex?’. i thought i’d share things that one must think about before diving back into it. let me know about the time you got back with your ex. did it work out? was it worth it?
I have never thought of that, Vanae. Once the problem solved, it is solved. Especially when the breakup starts by the girl, there is no way to go back. Just count the loss, and move on. And by the way, I believe the breakup should be initiated by the girl since her instinct is pretty accurate on the health and the future of the relationship.
andy,
for the most part, i think people should move on and focus on themselves. and i don’t think females should always initiate.
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So to answer your question. I went back with my ex a few years back. It Didn’t work out after again a year, but it was definitely worth it to know it really was over. Otherwise I think I still would’ve thought about getting back with her. Definitely not wasted time. We are still friends.
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