In this week’s episode of Vanae.com Show, I have a special guest, Nando (New York Gay Dating Guru) from Nandoism.com to answer V’star Zach’s question about gay dating!
Update: here in our V’star community, we are inclusive and we should support each other (no matter what sexual orientation). Please refrain from posting any negative comments towards our gays, because essentially, you’re putting down one of your v’star friends…and that makes me sad. Whether straight, bi-sexual or gay/lesbian, we’re defined by more than just our dating preference…each of us is an amazing individual with qualities that makes us unique- we’re human.
What do you think? Share your dating tips as a comment!
mmmm…. idk , but the whole gay thing just disgust me , lesbos is cool though ;p
lol, with a title like that I just have to investigate. I thought it would be over 2 separate topics of Gay dating AND Whoring in general, not specifically for the gay community… slightly disappointed to be honest… but oh well.
Nando’s on point. Go out and have an interesting life. Go rappelling, go skydiving, go scuba diving. Kinda be like Yes Man for awhile. Straight or gay, the more interesting your life is, the easier it is for someone to be attracted to you. And women and / or men (both in my case despite being straight) will come out of the wood work. It might take a minute or two but eventually one will be “the one” if there is such a thing. Most people lead boring lives. Break out of that and bring someone with you. Who doesn’t want to date someone who can do that?
Woops, that wasn’t supposed to be a reply to shady… lol think I found a bug in the site
v’stars, please don’t write negative comments towards gays. it shows limited thinking and it’s hurtful.
it’s like calling a ‘human being’ disgusting because they fall in love with someone (who happens to be the same sex). everyone has the equal right for love no matter what sexual orientation that person is.
we’re human beings. please be supportive to all v’stars.
Totally agree with vanae here, although I don’t agree all sexual orientations should be accepted. Like Bestiality and Necrophilia, I would say those are pretty disgusting
gay disgusting me and lesbians are just weird. This homo thing aint natural. I mean – not like mother nature meant it suppose to be.
Thats my opinion.
peace
And your opinion is based on a false premise. You say “not like mother nature meant it”. So it would follow from your assertion that this wouldn’t occur anywhere but in humanity. The large majority of animals exhibit homosexual behavior and even preference for the same sex in some cases. I don’t care about your opinion, just don’t base it on a stupid and/or ignorant argument.
Actually, science has determined that there are genes that make u gay….so, gay is natural, supposedly….
Personally, I thinks itz a galactic mistake. A penis exists to go into a female. How do you get that wrong. Oops, my bad, wrong gender…
Anyway, the whole gay community is what it is. Just liek any other sect. Not at all surprised by the sheer numbers of homosexuals considering how stupid most females are. Females spend more time learning about what styles go with the idiot they r intending to b with, than their role in society, & the power of that role, & how it is exploited.
The whole gay thing has never bothered me.I also don’t agree with it been unnatural since gays are BORN gay whether man or beast. although I do think some men are over the top its like we get it your gay.
Dear Fellow V’stars,
I am amazed that there are those who read and buy into Vanae and her blog who are so closed minded. You have to be very insecure to be bothered by what someone else feels about something or someone that is completely unrelated to your life. Just because you don’t agree or maybe deep down you feel the same way but are in denial, doesn’t mean that you can be hurtful in what you say.
I believe this post is more about forgetting what others think about what you are doing or saying and pursue those things that you are interested in. Why would you want to put up a fake facade and be accepted for who you are not and then at the end of the day? Why be with someone who doesn’t “see” you for who you really are. Perhaps you are afraid to “see” who you are because you might be disappointed? If you do what you love, you will be happy. You will meet people who also do things you love and happy people tend to have more people surround them. You’re naturally drawn to happy confident people because you want to learn their secret to happiness. That’s probably why you read this blog.
I am sure Vanae is doing what she loves and meeting amazing people. How many of you can say that you are fortunate enough to have the courage to do that? A person who is not “straight” putting themselves out there to find love takes courage. Take a moment and put yourselves in the other person’s shoes before you judge.
~Peter
I see donuts. My style is pink.
Your style is chocolate.
So with a donut not being a sandwich
it’s not the same thing. Eating
a sandwich is not the same as a donut.
Unless it’s peanut butter. Today I
feel like a sundae. Sandwiches, donuts
and ice cream.
These two things are not the same.
Though they taste very different.
— Don
Yeah they are fine, I’ve meet some homosexuals and they are fine.. sure some fit the stereotype and some didn’t.
But they are kl people.
I have always believed that people should be self expressed. I don’t care if someones preferences lean toward the same sex. Nando’s advice I believe also works for heteros, when you are ready and open you will find “the one”.
just be yourself and follow your heart then you know your doing the right thing.
“Ally Week” from Oct 18 to 22 be supportive and stand up!!! <3 is <3 lol
thanks Vanae for your support