Hola V’stars!
As you know, for ASK VANAE FRIDAE I answer your burning questions. As you can imagine, I get a ton of emails and phone messages for requests. Too bad there’s not 12 of me, to address all of the them.
Now, since you guys are my V’stars, I wanted to offer super shortcut opportunity to get your request to bubble to the top! By leaving your request in this special post! I wanna know…what ultimate topic would you want me to cover? Could be any topic your heart desires.
Leave your topic as a comment below! I’ll pick one of your topics and dedicate a Vanae.com show episode to you in the next coming weeks.
OH!! Ihave a good topic.
go over the difference between “Stalking! or Crushing!”..and how to transiton from being “Obsessed to just likeing a girl”
eh.
what about…
The phrase
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“If you will not fight for happiness it will not come”
from the show
“Mei-chan no Shitsuji”
(YOU SHOULD WATCH IT VANAE. I LOVE IT!
is like on mysoju.com. type it in and find the first epiode.)
Then If you like it suggest people to watch it to.
BALANCE!!!
I love to travel!!! But being a first time home buyer, its hard to make even the weekend trips. I hate money, its such a hinder.
How do I balance my love of road trips and priorities?
I’ve wondered how I can get the number from women who I meet on the streets or how I can make relations with perfect strangers. I also wondered dating manners, for examples, men should to open the door, a man walk with a woman on the street, he should to walk near the driveway(main road) and something like that. Could you list all of them as much as you can?
I want that topic too
so it sounds like the topic of:
“how to approach women & get their phone number”
“how to be a gentleman”
I have no problems to approach women on the street, or get their tel.number… (not always, but sometimes) … But if I have her tel.no – what is next? I can call her – but nothing happnens, still there is no crush …. That is a good topic also – what can I do if I have a telephone number – what is the next???
hey Vlad,
i picked your question as the topic of my next episode! coming out this weekend!
Vanae
your topic should be mixed signals women give and why.
second that!
A woman gives mixed signals because she’s mixed up herself (a dingbat). Mixed up about you (she likes you but something’s just not right). Or she’s milking you by calling you a “friend” to get free meals, movies, dates, company, money, and strokes to her ego without giving you any Pu$$y till someone better comes along and you’re delusional about the situation.
for a person who’s posting pretty strong viewpoints here, GO FOR BOLD and use your name. why post anonymously?
re: comment, don’t generalize women as negative creatures who ‘milk’ people and not give up the tang. that’s disrespectful of women. this is a community. be constructive, positive but not a doucheBAG.
well i don’t know how relevant this would be for most people but could you do an episode on teen pregnancy. i have a friend whose 17 and going through that right now and she’s pretty lost as to what to do. i’m the only one she’s told but i really don’t know how to help her.
hey sweetie,
you can refer her to ‘family planning’ services, organizations and resources to better deal with her situation.
but most importantly, she needs to talk to her parents about it. because sooner or later, her parents will have to involved. and they would respect her if she’s open and upfront.
V
Thanks for that,I don’t know why i didn’t think of that before but I’ll be sure to pass the info along
One topic fascinates me which u could do a topic i dont know
but what do u think about PUA(pick up artist) stuff in general? and what i mean stuff the books written by men who has studied women literally ive read some of those books and really helps alot with mind set,and what about the different techiniques used? like c&f humour etc…
I think this would be an interesting topic that Kale mentioned. I always wondered about this too as far as how women usually react to people in the PUA community. Ive heard some other people speaking against using the tricks, NLP and other gimmicks taught by PUAs such as Mystery, Ross Jeffries, David DeAngelo and the many other dating gurus out there.. They do seem to work to a certain point, but i was always a skeptic. If you do this topic i always wondered how women usually react from these techniques.
Peacocking aside, the phychological stuff does work. No matter what B.S. women say, about wanting a “nice” guy. Women…especially women under 30, love assholes. Why? Because they are a challenge.
Any woman can get a man; at the very least have concerns for her sexual viability placated, no matter how fat, ugly, or bitchy she may be. Alls she has to do is hang out by the bar at closing and some desperate, horny, drunken, smuck will hit on her. Mind you, he may not be the man she’s been longing for on her infinite, fairy tale list of unrealistic qualifications, but a man none the less.
i’ve been wanting to address the PUA community for a LONG TIME! i have VERY strong thoughts about this…so, this is a topic i’ll be doing for sure.
perhaps in the next couple of months.
=)
Vanae
Unicorns!!!!!
let’s eat!
i kid
I’m moving to France for a year this summer and will be entering into a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. A topic with some advice on that would be really helpful!
hey seb,
i actually did a show about long distance relationships here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AZU8qnYJO_w
=)
where to find available woman 35-50 who are still hot and fit but don’t want express tix to marriage. in other word like friends at college?
Cliboi…
Find a woman aged 35 to 50, that’s still hot, fit, and no tix to marriage, like friends at college? You’re joking, right?
Luckily, and I repeat luckily, I have a friend like that, but they are EXTREMELY RARE. Most women I know that age are being, or have been left by their husbands for younger women because they are no longer any of those things. If you got your shit together, still fit yourself, and have a decent income. I suggest you do the same, and find a younger woman. I don’t know how old you are, but they say half your age plus seven
is acceptable. Good Luck, Cliboi!
@Anon
half your age plus seven!
damn, Vanae flys under the radar. boohoo
also, SNSD GEE cuties! bahwah
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KFt_NILe-TM
Dude, how OLD are you? Vanae is 28 or 29!
48 (24+7, Vanae limbo dances under my radar)
check this out.. How to be HANDSOME ? lol nah but you guys should watch this jap movie “The Handsome Suit” its extremely funny.. anyway..
how do we dress the best we can to look good ? as long as we feel its good its good ??
in july, i’ll do a month long series on FASHION, STYLE & HAIR..stay tuneD!
Hi. What about time management?
Martin
Wow I love the topic by Jang! I also have a personal request. How about the topic on Personality
specifically what on personality?
Yes – PUA(pick up artist) topic sounds quite interesting… Vanae – I think that you are PUA also !!
PUA could be female as well as male ? What is your opinion?
Did you read any books of PUA authors?
what is the definition of a cute female?
You could go over the top 10 things that a person needs to know to attract their mate. For starters you have to be able to give a good massage. This applies to both genders. I’ll let you fill in the rest…
attracting a new mate?
making it more romantic with your current partner?
what dynamic would you like to dive into?
How about moving a casual relationship into a more serious one. This has been a problem for me in the past where I would date someone casually but I was not able to turn it into a more serious relationship.