Comments on: Game Dae Wednesdae: Should a female initiate?

By: francis of PHilippines

francis of PHilippines — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 12:53:47 +0000

hello VAnae… ijust wanna ask what should i do… coz im having bad times to forget my ex…we are already 8 months(broken apart) and until now i cant still forget her…what should i do??? thx vanae

By: soul

soul — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 06:42:33 +0000

I think its best if guys initiate. This has nothing to do with being backwards or traditional. It’s biological. I attract a lot of guys whether I intentionally do it or not so I don’t have a problem getting guys. I know I can get them. So a guy should initiate because it shows he’s not a wussball. If he can’t even approach you, how is he going to help/protect you further along the way if you two date, etc etc?

IMO, guys that want girls to initiate may just be too scared themselves so its easier if the girl does it. But really, man up and do what men are supposed to do. A female wants and needs to feel like a woman. This is not social conditioning but the natural process of human dating and mating sequence.

By: Tom

Tom — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 04:43:03 +0000

Gosh you know, I just had a friend tell me the other day that a girl was into me and wanted to let me know through my friend. Of course my friend wouldn’t tell me who this mystery girl is, but i did find it refreshing that she told me perhaps not indirectly but at least she did something, haa i kinda wish she’d just tell me who she is! that’s my 2 cents Cap’n!

By: Ronnie

Ronnie — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 20:03:04 +0000

If she’s NORMAL and HOT, YES! The problem its the chicks that are either TOO OLD, UGLY, OBESE, or F#cked in the head that initiate.

By: reyes

reyes — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:20:49 +0000

if a girl were to initiate it the first couple of times and i were to like her i would do my part to keep the relationship going

By: reyes

reyes — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:10:26 +0000

i would love it if girls initiated, it would make life so much easier for us, so long as the girl is honest about it and not overly pushing it if we don’t seem interested at first.

By: German

German — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 02:18:04 +0000

In my case, i think it could be a 50/50..she could be the iniator and i can do the closing, like ok i know you’ve like/love me for a while, so when are you gonna ask me?and then i could do the closing..could take some guts and balls, but i know i can do it now. I just need a little push from her, thats how my life works.

ok, im going off topic but it involves dinner since again i never been on a relationship, so that means even if the woman is financially depended, the man has to pay still?Cause for example as i sometimes give her gifts, i would like to receive a gift from her once in a while..im not sure.

By: Locus

Locus — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 14:34:39 +0000

Its COMPLETELY refreshing having a broad approach and initiate her intentions!!! Gentlemen this ends that God forsaken guessing games!!!!!!!!!!!

If she’s strictly lookin for ass, she will let it be known!!!

This is typically accomplished by going after older chicks. Rock concerts, bars what ever… These ladies are not bashful about what they want.!.

Go out and pull tail sirs!

By: Brandon

Brandon — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 02:31:03 +0000

Personally, I also find it attractive when girls take the initiative, as well.

I think that being chivalrous is a good thing but there’s a stigma still lingering about where it’s thought that it’s the “job” of the male to do the initiating and the bread winning, etc etc.

I’m all for equal opportunity! It takes the pressure off the males and the women can just know what’s up right off the bat!

By: Sherman

Sherman — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 19:34:21 +0000

i have no problem if women initiate,in fact i find it attractive it shows she doesn’t care how it looks but that she knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to ask. (kinda what women expect from men) also i think in if women do ask out men i feel they should have a female vibe about it.