We all have our criteria of qualities that we look for in a significant other. Besides the obvious physical attraction, I’m curious of what your 5 must-haves qualities. For me, he must be:
1. Compassionate (towards people & society)
2. Balance (well adjusted and aware)
3. Ambitious (in life and being worldly)
4. Intelligent
5. Thoughtful (being a gentleman and caring)
What are your 5 must-haves?
1. You got to be whiney to get your way with me. At the same time, you got to pick your spots. I can only say that when we are alone is the best time.
2.You have to know about “couples music”. Songs amongst lovers are awesome.
3.You have to be cuddley. Cuddley is crucial!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you can’t b close with some1,we are useless together.
4.You have to make me work,…….for your respect, your love, & attention; But, be vulnerable to inferiority.
5. Once again, cuddley-ness is awesome & WOO & stuff. It is so crucial to know the art of how to hold, caress, & enjoy a lover.
Anyway, be comprehensive of the person you enjoy. That is a monstuh crucial, regardless!!!!!!!!!
1) Respectful
2) Open-minded
3) Appreciative
4) Funny
5) And they totally must love at least 80% of the music I love
1) I will start with sincerity. It’s important that you can trust the person’s feelings for you.
2) Also, honesty (frankness) with me and with others.
3) I like to be challenged but in a way that I know is good for me–I hope that if the relationship doesn’t last forever that I will have become a better person because of it. In other words I do not want someone that brings out bad qualities in myself but rather good ones
4) In the long-term, I hope that she respects my ideas on some moral issues (vegetarian etc…)
5) Adventurous
1- Honesty (Especially within herself)
2- Empathetic
3- Down-to-earth
4- Tactful
5- Independant
Hmmmmm, good topic Vanae.
1) Respectful (I think this is most guy’s biggest hot button after the obvious)
2) Helpful (focused on giving rather than taking)
3) Emotionally stable (I shouldn’t grow gray hairs)
4) Loyal (I shouldn’t question her heart for her loved ones)
5) Fun (need I go into detail?)
I have some more but these are the top 5 essentials.
1.confident
2. Personaly accomplished
3. ambitious
4. Genuinly happy
5. Not completely co-dependent
Hmmmmm….
1- Open-minded
2- she must know what I want or need without saying
3- fun and happy .
4- Intelligent (updated)
5- Independant personality ( ofcourse the personality I like )
In no specific order
1. Must have a heart of gold
2. Loves to laugh
3. Highly Intelligent
4. Comfortable in her own skin (If she is having a bad hair she won’t think twice about it)
5. Not critical of others
6. Open minded
7. Open to new experiences
Either I’m blind or nobody posted anything about looks. WTF??? Vanae just lost any credibility that she had for not listing anything about looks. So did the rest of all y’all.
are you kidding me Sandro??
you didn’t read “Besides the obvious physical attraction..”
please…physical looks and attraction is granted, so it doesn’t have to be listed.
read carefully before posting. gracias.
1. Open-minded
2. Smart, but also funny
3. Loves to have fun
4. Someone i can easily talk to, without fear of rejection or judgement
5. Independant