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Game Dae Wednesdae: Do Good, Stranger!

Hello lovely V’stars!

In my last article, I wrote about taking a homeless person out for lunch and conversation. It was amazing! So this week’s game is to:

Do something simple and thoughtful, for a stranger.

offering change?
paying for lunch of the person behind you?
offer to tutor someone who needs help in class?
picking up something a stranger dropped?
leave a random ‘nice note’ in a book for the next reader?
giving a ride or a hand with something?
buy ice cream for a child?
write a thoughtful ‘thank you’ email to someone?
share a joke?

You are creative and opportunities are everywhere.
What good did you do todae? How did it make you feel?
V’stars, I want to hear all about it!

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18 Comments »

Comment by martin
2009-05-14 07:53:32

I sent a reply to an email from the president. I think he lets negative comments or opinions get under his skin so I sent him an encouraging email with my picture so I felt good about doing this. It was a contrary action but it made me feel good doing it. Thanks for encouraging me Vanae, you are awesome, with a big heart. I just watched the Blackeyed Peas video Where is the love…Its right here at Vanae.com! Thanks I will try to play this game all week.

martin

Comment by vanae
2009-05-14 15:53:40

“where is the love’ is a GREAT song!

keep up posted on what other good stuff you do this week!

 
 
Comment by Wissam
2009-05-14 12:04:20

Vanae I need to comment about one thing, you should delete the “buy ice cream for a child” specially if we are talking about strangers.
In this era, if a man does this and somebody looks at him, pretty sure the guy would be branded as a potential paedophile, give it a few mins and police will be at your door steps…
Fear mongering media/society etc.
bleh.
Just make sure if you ever go to Montreal after September (I am living in Edinburgh)to stand in line behind me, I just might buy you lunch ;)

Comment by vanae
2009-05-14 15:34:10

ahaha creeepy who buys ice cream for a child.

really, can’t be that bad. at the ice cream shop..if you talk to the parent and offer to buy ice cream for their kid. they’ll eat it up.

I LOVE MONTREAL.

i’ve always wanted to live there for a month or two.

i’ll definitely let you know when i stop by.

Comment by Wissam
2009-05-14 22:02:18

Coolio :)

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Comment by Coolatnite
2009-05-14 22:11:02

lunch/conversation with someone without a home? – check
offering change? – check
offer to tutor someone who needs help in class? – check
picking up something a stranger dropped? – check
giving a ride or a hand with something? – check
buy ice cream for a child? – check
write a thoughtful ‘thank you’ email to someone? – check
share a joke? – check

paying for lunch of the person behind you? (cool idea)
leave a random ‘nice note’ in a book for the next reader? (must find library..lol)

new ideas:
pay for toll of the person behind u
clean up after someone else at a fast food restaurant

 
Comment by Locus
2009-05-15 01:06:13

MY SEMESTER IS OVER!!! YAY!!!
And beacuse its over I did the nice deed of buying beers for everyone!!!

CELEBRATE!!!!

LoL, and the GREAT deed of NOT bringing home a married women!!! That was a close call. But I succeeded!!! :P

 
Comment by Nguyen
2009-05-15 03:07:02

Hey Vanae I was wondering if you had received my previous question about clubbing. Thanks.

 
Comment by Tim
2009-05-15 03:56:04

Hi Vanae:

You are my Internet crush ;) I love your blog and the great info and advice. A couple years ago, while walking home from work in Chicago I talked with a homeless man. Yeah, I gave him a few bucks, but the thing that I can tell he appreciated was that we shared a conversation. That means I listened to him and his problems and a shared with him some difficulties in my life (being raised by a single mom, etc.). I still remember this: after we were finished talking, I shook his hand. I think he really appreciated someone talking to him and listening – like somehow our conversation helped him feel more human. And I enjoyed the feeling that somehow, even this 5 or 10 minute conversation really helped in some way.

That being said, your post is a reminder to me that I need to do more…and do it more often.

Comment by vanae
2009-05-15 06:22:14

that’s awesome. i LOVE that part that you mentioned..

‘feel more human’ because it’s all about the human connection and breaking down our walls.

 
 
Comment by Archerfish
2009-05-15 05:17:39

realy good
the photo is interesting

Comment by vanae
2009-05-15 06:22:41

i took that photo of a random tree i saw near downtown SF.

it made me smile!

 
 
Comment by martin
2009-05-15 06:40:49

Todays game results:
1. fed a bird
2.was nice to people in traffic while driving
3.worked 20 minutes extra for free
4. encouraged 2 people at work
5.told a friend about the game
6. took a photo of my friends brother & emailed it to him
7.thought about opportunities to do good like just a smile to someone or a wave could make their whole day. Alot of people like to wave. A wave and a smile.Doing these things made me feel good.

 
Comment by Camellia
2009-05-16 06:34:35

well today I did something for someone that I don’t always think about, my little sister. School was closed today so we went out. I took her to see 17 again( which was cheesy but it had Zac Efron so no complaints here LOL :D ), we went for pizza and then basically went shopping at the mall. We had a total blast:D It was especially fun just trying on all those clothes. What made her smile most of all was just the fact I actually spent time with her. I know I’m for sure gonna do it again :D

 
Comment by Glenn
2009-05-16 12:32:36

I was walking at an outdoor mall with some friends after lunch yesterday….after my friend unexpectedly bought me lunch. Anyway, I saw an older man with one hand missing holding out a hat with the “claw” that has now replaced his hand. I figured because I just had my lunch bought for me, I would take the money I just saved on lunch and give it to this gentleman. I’m not sure what the gentleman did with the money as I didn’t stop to talk but I hope it made a difference. It made me feel good and I sure won’t miss the twenty dollars. Thanks for the suggestion Vanae.

 
Comment by Nikko
2009-05-25 07:02:25

Hey Vanae I have a problem with this girl I like.It’s been like 6 month seens i talked to her and prom is coming, Do you thing she would say yes if I ask her to prom

 
Comment by numero
2009-05-26 07:55:36

thx for helping make the world a better place :)

Comment by vanae
2009-05-27 03:59:50

and thanks for being part of the V’star community. together, we’re making this world a better place
=)

 
 
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