what a difficult task to accomplish in a world full of expectations, full of false senses of pride, full of people who hate themselves or hate others

perhaps… what really allows us to embrace ourselves is if others embrace us.

could you love yourself… if no one else did?

But I will do my best.

“One cannot truly love others, until one can love itself” – Osho

when im really sad i go and i buy some flowers, go to a busy place and i give them to someone i think that needs them

i did it at work 2 weeks ago, i wished them a gorgeous day and they felt better, and i felt better to

to the embracer or embracee, lol…

so i’m just an embracer enabler now, i don initiate a hug or anything but if someone wants to hug me or says they need/want one im all for it.

its a good system, if you hug everyone then it makes it less special

Thatz my basic one track psychological process.

I find keirsey.com a little more intersting.

Anyway, keirsey.com explains there are 4 general types. Rationals, Artisons, Idealist, & Guardians.

I found comprehension in knowing that only about 5% of the populus is my type. I also found some confidence in being such a rare breed.

This knowledge helps professionally also. It speeds up the process of finding out what you have to deal with in your work environment, & work day. Everyone either voluntarily or involuntarily goes toward work, new jobs, &/or new co-workers/people with the attitude of: what I’m going to have to contend with from you &/or here.

Being a rational. I rationalize that if someone is an asshole. Thatz what they are. Sometimes I deduce that they are either being an asshole on purpose, involuntarily, or if the situation caused there asshole-ness.

Generally though, I spend alot of time rationalizing why I’ve acted like an asshole &/or dumbass; when I’m not refusing to engage in baited scenarios by people who enjoy the annoyance passive agressive BS causes me.(had a bad day at work)

Anyway, itz cool science. I find kiersey.com the most interesting, & personalitypage.com the most descriptive of the types. Personalitypage.com’s decription of my type was dead on.

Itz been a couple of years since I’ve stayed estute on the subject; but I have been implementing the knowledge to others; like a big ole ENTJ field marshal does.

I’m going to guess that ur some type of Artison, & an extrovert. If you find me trying to guess that, to be, personal &/or private, I’m probably wrong, & ur probably an introvert.

I am also the king of run-on sentences.

would love to hear more about your ENTJ type. i’ll take a look at that website.
V

what i did was breath deeply and surround myself with people who loved me and were accepting. with that support, i was able to let down my walls.

perhaps a convo with someone you love and trust, will guide you.

Vanae

we all walk down our own path and will get to where we want to be.

happy holidays!
V