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douchebaggin’

of all the online dating messages i receive, i’ll get a ridiculous one from a douchebag from time to time. i just HAD to share this with you. it’s creepy, douchey, but funny at the same time! ladies, beware of this guy! men, don’t write messages like this to women!

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btw- my email response to this guy was “are you fucking kidding me?! your message will be blasted. thanks for amusing me.”

vanae’s tip of the dae: never let a guy get away with writing a msg like this to you. call him out so he thinks twice about writing the same thing to others. not only did i block this douche, but i reported him to the service providers. it really blows my mind that people have the courage to write these kinds of msgs.

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19 Comments »

Comment by Pahn
2008-09-24 12:59:07

I stil cannot believe that there ae people like that.. but hey,, that’s the power of the net,, haha,, for losers to make more fool of themselves,, haha

 
Comment by Alex
2008-09-24 21:07:17

no way. i can’t believe someone would write (let alone think) that. jeez

 
Comment by Kamal
2008-09-24 21:23:33

Yeah, you should block this guy from your list.

 
Comment by vanae
2008-09-24 21:24:45

not only did i block this guy, i sent the report to the service providers about his douchey-ness.

 
Comment by Ron Morris
2008-09-24 22:06:02

Geeeeeeeeeeeeeez, what a freakin’ SKUZBUCKET!!!

 
Comment by Locus
2008-09-25 00:20:37

WOW! Intense!!
At first read i thought it was one of them “ReDiCuLoUs” Forwards my friends text me all the time… LoL Then i realized there was no punch line!!

Keep the smiles comin Vanae! This guy is crazy, you are smokin!!! :P

 
Comment by RR
2008-09-25 03:56:28

That sucks. Hmmm…how do you know if that message was the work of a scammer who intentionally grabbed a random pic of an innocent dude from the web & attached it to that vile message?

It happens very often on craigslist’s dating ads where phony profiles are set up with pics from unsuspecting individuals. Thats a dark side of the web…

 
Comment by vanae
2008-09-25 16:43:11

RR,
or it could be an ex-gf who’s taking his identity to do that.

if it’s a case…man, he must have done something(s) really fucked up for her to go through all that effort.

nonetheless, he probably deserves it.
muaahahhhhaha *evil laugh*

(innocent smile)
vanae

 
Comment by RR
2008-09-26 05:22:32

Hmmm….its quite interesting to think about the possibilities :-)

it’d be some disgruntled ex-gf who took that dude’s identity (your suggestion),
OR
it’d be some disgruntled ex-bf who took that dude’s identity (why not?),
OR
some disgruntled employee trying to defame his/her boss/co-worker (e.g. co-worker dating gone awfully wrong),
OR
some random bloke/chick scamming (my earlier suggestion),
OR
this dude was so stupid … a bum to be precise (hey, but thats what his screen name says).

So … theoretically, assuming each of the above is equally likely, there’s only at most a 20% chance that you made a mistake & at most an 80% chance that Mr. Lovebummm deserved it…odds are in your favor, girl!

 
Comment by Jei
2008-09-26 13:19:14

What an asshole haha. By the way, I never knew you are Vietnamese! Awesome :DDDD

I started dating a Viet girl about 6 months ago and it’s going great. As for the multi-racial video you just posted on Youtube recently, it’s sooooo true because her parents are kinda old fashion and strict. She is having a hard time communicating with them about me because they don’t want to accept that she is dating at all, much less dating an American. What’s even more difficult is my background is Japanese and White, so I do alot of work overseas during the summer and she wants to come with me. Parents are not having an easy time taking that in either… haha.

Fuck my life -.-

 
Comment by badapple
2008-09-27 07:02:40

who cares it was a d-bag comment either way a d-bag typed it .yea an hey v you rock girly

 
Comment by Isaac
2008-09-28 09:10:32

u rite, no need to bother such things

 
Comment by Alex Steed
2008-09-30 16:03:12

This is hilarious and terrible - all at once!

 
Comment by Anthony
2008-10-08 08:52:24

ahh, it’s guys like this dude that makes other guys look good. thanks buddy loverbummm!

 
Comment by Glenn (in NY)
2008-10-23 12:32:28

I actually feel bad for the guy…

Obviously a bit self-conscience, trying to hide it with insults and derogatory comments

It’s like when little boys become nasty/abusive to girls that they really are attracted to - because they couldn’t handle the rejection, so they sabotage the relationship before it could reach the “accept/reject” point. Oddly, so this way they can understand/accept the rejection

I also feel sorry for him because he won’t experience the beauty, intelligence and allure of an Asian woman - much less (in my opinion and experience)the un-equalled love, affection and all that comes with that that Asian woman provide and deserve/appreciate in return

 
Comment by Bobbi
2008-11-04 03:57:27

would you rather he had pretended to be a polite and respectful guy? I say yeah he’s definately scuzzy but hey- atleast you didn’t waste your time to find out first.

 
Comment by Franz
2008-11-14 10:41:17

I think that we have chance to met people.

Been gentle nice or at least have a litle respect isn´t dificult or you can let out garbage from your mouth.

i´m sure everyone have the option and decide how to aproach to someone.

P.S.

Ur Cute Vanae

 
Comment by Peter
2008-11-20 07:45:43

haha wat an idiot. that’s wat u call super ego.
and yes i agree u are cute Vanae, in a dorky kind of way, like me XD

 
Comment by Peter
2008-11-20 07:47:09

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l06M-dsQf3Q
this song is perfect of wat you should do to this guy

 
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