Comments on: don’t talk about yourself too much

By: Me

Me — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 17:10:51 +0000

Learn to capitalize the beginning of your sentences.

By: Bobbi

Bobbi — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 03:51:24 +0000

Excellent topic.
I have had many conversations in which none of my questions are reciprocated. I’m forever amazed that some people are willing to sit in awkward silence then to ask me about myself. In my younger years I did not notice this about some of my relationships as I was in awe of the other person and less focused on what I needed/deserved.
I regard these one way conversations as ‘red flags’, signaling to me that this person is not for me.

By: genial

genial — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 11:24:08 +0000

me my self prefer to be a good listener even it’s realy annoying me… hmm.. well…

By: genial

genial — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 11:22:45 +0000

Have you ever had someone tell you that you seem to talk about yourself a lot? Or perhaps you tend to notice that people seem to avoid being around you or having long conversations with you. Either way it simply means that you may spend way to much time talking about yourself. There are however several ways that you can break yourself out of this really bad habit. Is that it? Lmao! It could be that you are just a self centered person and think that the world revolves around you. Or it could be that you are a good person at heart and just don’t realize that you are constantly talking about yourself.

By: Andy

Andy — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 21:06:43 +0000

Oh, by the way. Your subject reminds me of the movie Smart People (2008), by Dennis Quaid and Sarah Jessica Parker.

By: Andy

Andy — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 21:01:03 +0000

Nice tip indeed, Vanae. Looking back to my old relationship, what you said is so true.But I have a tendency to talk too much about myself when I have real chemistry for the girl. What I didn’t know, as you said, it is supposed to be an adventure and it kills the fun of knowing each other(the girl’s part) if I lay out everything for her already. I used to think expose yourself and you’ll gain her trust, but you are right. It is supposed to be like a volley ball game. But what about those awkward silence when the other player doesn’t return the ball despite your effort? Any tips, Vanae? Thank you!!!