Comments on: Confidence. Are you born with it? http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/ The freshest coach to empower you for love and life. Sat, 31 Jul 2010 10:15:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Jazz http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7551 Jazz Fri, 16 Jul 2010 04:00:05 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-7551 Confidence here we go again!! who cares everyone has butterflies when they first meet or see someone they truly have feelings for, nobody is truly confident in the beginnings of connections because you would not have those feelings if you were so confident right from the start. Confidence builds over time and for some people it builds up quicker than others. I personally feel girls should not just judge boys on their confidence levels just like boys should not just judge girls on their physical appearance. The personality of the person should be the key determining factor and nothing less because a personality will tell you everything you need to know about the person, and you can not tell what someones personality is after a week or two it takes months, even a lifetime. Confidence here we go again!! who cares everyone has butterflies when they first meet or see someone they truly have feelings for, nobody is truly confident in the beginnings of connections because you would not have those feelings if you were so confident right from the start. Confidence builds over time and for some people it builds up quicker than others.

I personally feel girls should not just judge boys on their confidence levels just like boys should not just judge girls on their physical appearance. The personality of the person should be the key determining factor and nothing less because a personality will tell you everything you need to know about the person, and you can not tell what someones personality is after a week or two it takes months, even a lifetime.

]]> By: Tri Khuc http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7350 Tri Khuc Fri, 04 Jun 2010 01:52:57 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-7350 I remember when I was in high school that confidence was all about being comfortable around girls and being outspoken. But as I grow older, the idea of confidence has had much refinement. Confidence now includes believing in yourself and your abilities...knowing what you can do and what you can't do. I don't think confidence is innate in each of us. Confidence is based tremendously on our environment...how we were raised and how we interacted in our social circles during our growing pains. I remember when I was in high school that confidence was all about being comfortable around girls and being outspoken. But as I grow older, the idea of confidence has had much refinement. Confidence now includes believing in yourself and your abilities…knowing what you can do and what you can’t do.

I don’t think confidence is innate in each of us. Confidence is based tremendously on our environment…how we were raised and how we interacted in our social circles during our growing pains.

]]> By: Sonia http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-6440 Sonia Mon, 25 Jan 2010 19:35:40 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-6440 Yes! Me too .. I'm exactly the same :P i'm reading the secret to teen power.. It's pretty good but also Vanae is great! Continue doing your blogg :) Yes! Me too .. I’m exactly the same :P i’m reading the secret to teen power.. It’s pretty good but also Vanae is great! Continue doing your blogg :)

]]> By: Watcher http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-6199 Watcher Fri, 01 Jan 2010 08:41:43 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-6199 Hey vanae I'm not going but I was wondering what you do at your workshop thing Hey vanae I’m not going but I was wondering what you do at your workshop thing

]]> By: Grandma http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-4760 Grandma Tue, 25 Aug 2009 18:53:21 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-4760 One word: mindset :P One word: mindset :P

]]> By: Kristina http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-4640 Kristina Mon, 10 Aug 2009 03:06:19 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-4640 I am confident with myself. I am just really shy and have been for a long time. I really want to change for the better..but i freeze up when i am with people i dont know..and i think about what they will think about me too much. I am confident with myself. I am just really shy and have been for a long time. I really want to change for the better..but i freeze up when i am with people i dont know..and i think about what they will think about me too much.

]]> By: Dan http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-4412 Dan Sat, 11 Jul 2009 18:31:27 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-4412 yeahhh i suppose that makes sense. ill give that a go! cheers mate yeahhh i suppose that makes sense. ill give that a go! cheers mate

]]> By: Wissam http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-4375 Wissam Wed, 08 Jul 2009 11:00:59 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-4375 I mean I don't stutter with women anymore (sorry headache) I mean I don’t stutter with women anymore (sorry headache)

]]> By: Wissam http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-4374 Wissam Wed, 08 Jul 2009 10:59:18 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-4374 believe it or not, the internet helped big time. I was starting to make conversations in here, its much much much easier to talk here. Blogging helped too, it helped me deliver my ideas instead of just being quiet. My next step was with woman, as Dan below I am too friend zoned a lot, which used to make me sad and all.And as we know once friend zoned that's it, but I learned to embrace that (only very lately) and enjoy their friendship which is helping with the communication with women. I am still shy, but I do stutter with women , I can have a normal conversation. I have to work on the last step, become a man and not just a friend. I know I look good, I am smart, and funny, so it will be ok soon :). believe it or not, the internet helped big time. I was starting to make conversations in here, its much much much easier to talk here. Blogging helped too, it helped me deliver my ideas instead of just being quiet.
My next step was with woman, as Dan below I am too friend zoned a lot, which used to make me sad and all.And as we know once friend zoned that’s it, but I learned to embrace that (only very lately) and enjoy their friendship which is helping with the communication with women.
I am still shy, but I do stutter with women , I can have a normal conversation. I have to work on the last step, become a man and not just a friend. I know I look good, I am smart, and funny, so it will be ok soon :) .

]]> By: vanae http://vanae.com/confidence-are-you-born-with-it/comment-page-1/#comment-4366 vanae Wed, 08 Jul 2009 00:17:03 +0000 http://vanae.com/?p=2484#comment-4366 great line! express, don't impress. i like that. great line! express, don’t impress. i like that.

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