I thought I’d respond with this video series- which is a parody for people requesting for this advice and the silly stereotypes of asian women. Enjoy! and please share if you found this series, funny. Thanks to Steve at APA Channel for his incredible filming skills & editing!

Josh is one of the few dating coaches that knows body language and touch. Watch this episode so you can get the best advice on when and how to touch a female in an interaction!

http://vanae.com/badass

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“The minute I heard my first love story,
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was.
Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along.”
? Rumi

Many of us spend most of our lives searching for our other halves – as if we are incomplete until we find “THE ONE”. And inevitably, this hunt sets up expectations that bring disappointment that then becomes misery. Familiar with this process?

We become jaded and doubtful. “So where is this THE ONE person?” or “This relationship was supposed to be the one”. Worse, we lose sight of ourselves and the beauty of life itself.

I have learned from my personal journey of love, and from the gift of Vipassana, that I’d been searching in vain for my other half, when it’s been with me all along.

The fact is…I am whole. And YOU ARE complete and whole just as you are.

Too often, people seek coaching with me because they believe there’s something inherently wrong with them… Don’t seek coaching to fix yourself. You’re not broken. We are human … we are designed to be imperfect. Coaching will work best for you when you seek it because you love to learn, and to evolve into a more conscious individual, with inner fulfillment, and stronger connections to others.

People seek businesses coaches, not because they think their business sucks and think it’s inherently messed up. People seek business coaches to expand their business, expand and evolve. If we take the same approach to dating and personal development, we can also expand and evolve this compassion and space, and share that tremendous growth in your mind and in your heart.

Find that love within yourself and in the community. Because when you take yourself off this pointless search for love, when you understand and trust that the love you seek from your future partner has been with you all along, you’ll naturally take the steps in the right direction.

Bootycalls…we’ve had them before and want them now. Not that I’m condoning or condeming bootycalls, but if you are in this situation currently, someone’s gotta tell you straight up…and that person is me.

Please enjoy the new episode on Bootycall Etiquette. What tips do you have?

For the past month, I have been presenting to a local high school and youth group in regards to un/healthy dating & teen dating violence. It’s staggering how prevalent abusive relationships are taking place for young people and what they have bare witnesses to (domestic violence at home). I was blown away of how many freshmen high schoolers have already experienced or is currently experiencing Teen Dating Violence. Here’s my new web-episode sharing the signs of unhealthy dating, how to know if you’re in an abusive relationship and how to get help as the one being abused or being the abuser. Please share this video and blog posts with those you care about.

Oh, the first date! Don’t freak out! You’re going on this date to get to know the other person and have fun! Don’t get too tripped up if this person is the one or not. Be in the moment, listen and enjoy yourself!

Many guy v’stars requested this topic, so I did this episode geared towards the guys. What first date tips do you have? Leave them as a comment below. ENJOY!

Thought you’d appreciate this comical video advice from Rhett & Link. ENJOY!