Remember this applies to your best friend situation if they are single. If your BFF is dating someone, then don’t chance it by having the conversation. Could get awkward.
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My friend, Timid, sent this to me recently and wanted my thoughts on this. But before I share my opinion on this, I would love to hear it from each V’star.
Recently, I was talking to a friend who’s in a relationship, which he knew it wasn’t going to last long-term. She’s a good person, but she wasn’t the right one for him. Sad part is…she has no idea.
People are in denial about their feelings. The line gets blurred between being dishonest of where the relationship is going versus just being complacent to see where it flows. If anytime you’re in a relationship and it dawns on you that it won’t work out long term, you need to be honest with your partner. Last thing you want to do is lead your partner on, causing more pain (than you were hoping to avoid).
Now, if your partner knows the certainty or uncertainty of a long term relationship, then at least they can make that decision to stay or accept that it’s a short-term thing. Otherwise, it’s leaving your partner in the dark and keeping that person in your life in selfishness.
It’s one thing, when both people have decided to enjoy and live out the fun relationship even if it’s short term. It’s another thing, when one person knows it’s going to end soon, yet leads the other person on.
Think about this: What if the roles were reversed? Would you want the other person to let you know if s/he knew it wasn’t going to work out long term?
Vanae’s tip of the dae: Be true to your partner, but more importantly…true to yourself. Be with someone you really care for, not just for the sake of being with someone. I’d rather be happily alone than lead someone on.
V’stars, have you been on either sides of this situation? How did it turn out?
I’m sure everyone has heard of or read the book, The Game by Neil Strauss. There’s mixed feelings about this book. Some consider it as the male’s bible to dating, confidence and social interactions. Others consider the Book of Douchebagery. This book depicts Neil’s journey into the Seduction Community and Pick Up Artist Community.
Curious, what do you think of The Game?
Of course, I have thoughts about The Game and the PUA community but I’ll share them on an upcoming Vanae.com Show episode.
So, what are your thoughts on The Game? Be honest. I’d love to hear it.
I created this special Valentine Video for my V’stars! Enjoy and have a great Love weekend! I’ll be hosting a Singles Wine Tasting event on Saturday, celebrating Vietnamese New Year with my mum and having special Valentines dinner.
Please comment below what you think of the new character, Vi Vi the Asian Fortune Teller.
In celebration of Valentine’s Week, this week’s Game Dae Wednesdae is answering: Do you celebrate Valentines? If so, what is the most memorable Valentines for you? Could be a person you spent it with, a gift, romantic planning…you get the drift.
For me, I totally celebrate Valentines! I especially celebrate it with my girlfriends every year doing a Anti-Dick Valentines- meaning a girls night out without men and celebrating great love & friendship. It’s always a blast!
Vanae’s Tip of the Dae: Don’t be bitter about Valentine Day! It’s a day to celebrate love, love with your loved ones. So don’t forget your showing your appreciation for your mom, sister, close friends or any loved ones.
Ever thought ‘I would love to share my article on Vanae.com?’ Well now you can! I have been getting articles and questions from those who want to post a guest blog article here. So I’m currently accepting submissions from guest bloggers!
Here are the guidelines:
- Must tie in the theme of dating, relationships, sex, spirituality or personal development
- No more than 500 words
- Be sure to include a short description about you, your blog and a url link.
Submit to: ayvanae@gmail.com
I will review each submission and will contact you if I decide yours will make it on here. Who knows, if your shietz good I might invite you to become a regular guest blogger here on Vanae.com
