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This is a great start to the year with a real talk episode about sex and pleasuring women. Don’t get hung up about giving the female orgasms! There are supplementary things you can do to pleasure her. You gotta hear this! Thanks to Skyy John, Victoria and Rachel for joining in the conversation!

Bootycalls…we’ve had them before and want them now. Not that I’m condoning or condeming bootycalls, but if you are in this situation currently, someone’s gotta tell you straight up…and that person is me.

Please enjoy the new episode on Bootycall Etiquette. What tips do you have?

Sex Saturdae Webisode:

This is a hilarious parody on dating advice, sex and self-esteem! Well done, The Onion!
What did you think of this?

Let’s be honest here…many people like porn, me not excluded.

But I can imagine how some people may have hesitations about their partners watching porn without them around. This usually brings up “Well, what does this mean? Does this reflect how my partner feels about me or our sex life?” I’m also aware of cultural and religious views on porn, so it’s different for each person.

But watching porn can be very separate from how one feels about their partner….unless there’s a problem (porn addiction, porn dependency, etc). I always thought porn is awesome (minus the f’ed up ones- and you know which ones I’m referring to). Below is my episode on this and I’m curious of what your thoughts are around porn and relationships.

Last week, I did an episode on trust and believing what your significant other revealed about their sexual history. Inevitably, this spawned the discussion about sex partners ( and sadly, some guys had very sexist thoughts/expectations of women). One male even commented that he wanted to know how many people she’s been with so that he can protect her. Now, I’ve never heard of this reasoning before..so I’m surveying you to get your thoughts on this topic.

First off. we all know how important it is to honestly talk about sexual history with your mate – about sexual practices, STIs, safer sex, birth control, etc. So this talk is standard and it’s essential. Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way…

Game Dae Wednesdae is: Does it matter to you about your partner’s past sex rendevous? Whether it be the number of partners, what they’ve experience, how long ago? If so, why? Also, what is your age? and I’m not referring to as a curiosity. When I say matter, I mean, it really matters to you.

I have a theory about this and will see if it’s true according to our v’stars.

Honestly, what do you think of this below?

I’m sure everyone has heard of or read the book, The Game by Neil Strauss. There’s mixed feelings about this book. Some consider it as the male’s bible to dating, confidence and social interactions. Others consider the Book of Douchebagery. This book depicts Neil’s journey into the Seduction Community and Pick Up Artist Community.

Curious, what do you think of The Game?

Of course, I have thoughts about The Game and the PUA community but I’ll share them on an upcoming Vanae.com Show episode.

So, what are your thoughts on The Game? Be honest. I’d love to hear it.

Ever thought ‘I would love to share my article on Vanae.com?’ Well now you can! I have been getting articles and questions from those who want to post a guest blog article here. So I’m currently accepting submissions from guest bloggers!

Here are the guidelines:
- Must tie in the theme of dating, relationships, sex, spirituality or personal development
- No more than 500 words
- Be sure to include a short description about you, your blog and a url link.

Submit to: ayvanae@gmail.com

I will review each submission and will contact you if I decide yours will make it on here. Who knows, if your shietz good I might invite you to become a regular guest blogger here on Vanae.com

Love,
Vanae