For this week’s activity, you actually get to be in my upcoming episode! Show me your most angry face and behavior in a 5 sec video clip (.mov file) and send to ayvanae@gmail.com. I’ll be compiling these bad boys and you’ll see the finished product soon!
And here’s a treat for you! (Me singing guitar for yah)
You feel a soft shock everytime, doesn’t matter who.
Doesn’t matter how deep.
Every ending sends a soft shock.
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This is the feeling after a breakup, break off or let down.
V’stars, curious of what your ‘moment after dawn’ song is? You know…the song that capsulates how you freshly feel afterwards.
Q. I am in this situation now where me and ex, we broke up months ago, but the thing is, though we broken up, she do not want to lose me, therefore she came out with this thing called – No string attached relationship’. What it does, we behave like couple but there isn’t any title whatsoever..We are just close friends. Now I am in this dilemma, where I do love her still and she does love (I think), I want to move on, but yet I am afraid if I did, and she later she decides to come back to me? What can I do?
Confused
A. Dear Confused,
I’m sorry to say my dear, but despite that fact she doesn’t want strings attached…she’s stringing you along! Follow your gut feeling. If you want to move on, then let go. Often times, we get scared to let go because of the unknown.
The unknown if we’ll get back with our ex.
The unknown if we’ll find love again.
The unknown where this new path will take us.
But you have the power to transform this exciting unknown into your own path and ultimately your destination. The new path will lead you where you need to be. Absolutely take this opportunity to think about what is good for you…let go and start walking.
By the way, EX are titled EX for a reason: They need to be X-ed out of your current romantic life. Don’t get caught up if it’ll hurt your ex’s feelings, because no matter what, everyone’s hurt a little in the beginning. Then you’ll get over it and move on with your life, as you did from previous relationships.
Vanae’s tip of the Dae: Don’t let anyone string you along. Ask yourself of what is good for you and head in that direction. Your heart will thank you for the liberation!
V’stars, what do you think? Have you been in this situation? What was the outcome?
What is something you’ve always wanted or wanted to learn?
Your health and body is your temple. A mobile temple, that you must take care of. And this is why I’m making a point to put my health first and be really active. Recently on my facebook and twitter, I posted that I would like to get personal trainer lessons in exchange for my life & dating coaching. Good trade, ay?
With an economy like this, more and more, people are exchanging their skills and services. We all have great skills, so why not share them? Just like back in the days in a village.
This made me curious…
What is your skill?
and what you service/skill would you like to gain in exchange?
POST IT IN A COMMENT BELOW. THIS COULD BE A SKILL BULLETIN BOARD.
PS- If you are or know of a Bay Area personal trainer…let me know!
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Vanae’s tip of the dae: Gain a skill, an experience or something you’ve been wanting to do for a while. Think outside the box! Be resourceful! Everything doesn’t have to be paid for in money. Experiences, connections and relationships are worth more than that.
