As evolving humans, we are constantly learning and churning our awareness into growth. Even in the last year, I know I have gained a lot of lessons especially about myself (through my integral program). So I ask you for this week’s Game Dae Wednesdae:
What is the biggest lesson you’ve learned in the last year? Whether it’s about yourself or it relates to dating…I want to hear all about it, so leave it as a comment below!
My biggest lesson: Getting in touch with yourself and being honest as you are vulnerable, that’s a great start to depth and meaning. This has taught me that I am, where-ever I go. I’ll know myself more if I’m honest about who I’m not.
V’stars, what’s your biggest lesson(s)? And how has it impacted you?
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Lessons learned:
1) Sex is NEVER free.
2) Complete freedom means ZERO relationships.
3) Love is DEEP game devised to get high value for little cost.
4) Hollywood is the SUPREME Truth.
5) Vanae ROCKS!
sex is NEVER free..haha
would love for you to elaborate on what that means to you and how you got there.
Vanae
PS- thanks! all of our v’stars ROCK too!
What he means is for MOST GUYS its never free.
Most guys up PAYING for it indirerectly; through flowers, drinks, dates; ultimately supporting a family, alimony, child support, whatever. Or they pay prostitutes. Its been that way since the first lady in the worlds oldest profession started, and it will remain that way till kingdom come. Basically at the bare bones, bottom line level, remove all the fluff, its Pu$$y for Provision.
Vanae, you know that feeling when intense passion climaxes and what follows is a panting silence of overwhelming peace and clarity with the one whose sweaty body is joined with yours in that exhilirating joy of being and oneness with the Creator of the universe?
Sex is never free UNLESS if it’s with THAT one whom your soul resonates with.
You are in my heart, Vanae. I don’t know why or how– you resonate with the murmur of my heartbeats and the soothing tingles on my fingertips as I type these precious words to a beautiful and powerful woman.
It’s not POSSIBLE that I L-ve you!!!
-daVid
1) Never daydream while you are shopping – you might put things in your bag by accident and people might think you are stealing (and even you are not arrested, it IS humiliating, and friends will haunt you about it).
2) Never talk to yourself out loud while you are on street – people will think you are not 100%.
3) If you are not sure if you smell, have a second opinion. Ask your relatives or friends. (Same with your apartment/home — ask for second opinion).
4) If there are problems, and no one else can help — who do you call?? Vanae!!!
daydreaming & putting things into my purse..never done that,but it seems like an interesting lesson
whoot whoot!
2009 was somewhat of a tough year granted they were my own mistakes.
1) Do not be afraid to fail because in the end, I will only excuses and still fail
2) While they’re still your best friends, being brutally honest (blunt) will still drive them away
3) It’s okay to be chilled and relaxed, but sooner or later I have to get serious.
4) I have some talent in this stand up comedy biz, it’s up to me where I take it.
i love that lesson about fear of failing!
go fierce on your stand-up comedy!
hugs,
Vanae
My biggest lesson: Always speak up for yourself!!
great one, katherine!
very key, in being successful in business, for your sanity and growing in life.
i know i learned that lesson growing up.
Learn to face your FeaR
The more it worries u, the more u must have the courage n determine to face it, fight it, conquer it! Accept its challenge, Don run away.
Remember, VicToRy only belongs to those who refused to GiVe Up !
exactly.
facing it can be the most challenging thing, but very rewarding as well.
kudos!
Vanae
My biggest lesson is:
1)Even your best friends can turn out fake
2)Everyone role with assholes, but in the end, I’m the one, they feel comfortable with.
3)Step out for yourself.
4)People will always keep surprising you.
5)You want something, You’ll have to do it Yourself.
And I could go on and on and on because I constantly keep learning.
i especially love your 5th lesson on going for what you want!
Vanae
PS- being the person, people feel comfortable with is a very soulful spot to be. long term.
1. Be passionate about every second which you are spending with your date. Be optimistic, cheerful and appreciate the momentum. It will never come back again. And life is here and now.
2. You can’t have everything in life, but you can have what you need.
3. Everything happens for a reason. Bear in mind to appreciate whats good happing to you.
4. You can not be better at something until you learn and gain experience.
5. Dont be to concerned about money. Money will be here forever, but you won’t.
6. Dont wait for someone special to make your life great. Make your life great and someone special will appear very soon.
And much more. This year was the most intensive in my life. But i am happy about year 2009. It was a great experience and i became much more better person.
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i absolutely love lesson #2 & #5 about need and how living life extends beyond money!
V
One of my biggest lessons that I learned from 2009 is that it is true that everyone has problems in their lives or people are the way they are for a reason, example someone may seem snobby but they are really just quiet because of something in their past.
Right now for 2010 I am realizing that almost all of us have something in common with one another, so thats why people should stop focusing on the “stereotypes” of people they hang out with and just be them. One of your most bestest friends could look totally opposite from you and listen to different music, bla bla bla…. but since you never took the chance to know him/her you could of been missing on an amazing friendship
My biggest lesson is “anger managment”
I finally bought a book on “1 2 3 Magic Disciplin” a good phycologist book on how to do a disciplin when baby sitting my niece I baby sit my niece 5 days a week and she is really a handful she not a normal shilc she is a speical child the book I got really help I learn to give her 3 chances before time out rather than a time out right away. if you say That 1 That 2 That 3 it That 3 but take 5 since she is 4 years old so I usually give her four chances and 4 minutes time out rfather than 20 second time out since she is getting older.
I think a ot of you know what bagering, inimatating, butter up and two more if I can remember. also T&M (Testing and Manimuplating)
if you want the name of the book and author let me know I have to get it back from my sister she is borrowing it now. I am half way through the book.
I will check back here for more comments
Matt
1-Don’t be nice
2-Don’t be nice
3-Don’t be nice
4-See 1,2,3
be nice
A lesson. I think the past year, lots has happened with friends and people I have met. It as if you meet someone, the affect could be big or small, but how would you even know. Things like that help make who we are and if forgotten, we ultimately forget ourselves. And I found this out unintentionally. Good friends going their own way, knowing it or not, they are somewhere else. And it slowly hits you both, or just me, in the face.
Better to know it wile I’m young now than latter.
it’s amazing on how a little moment or action, can be such an impact on people.
BE GOOD. DO GOOD!
If you want to do, don’t think, just do
exactly, don’t doubt yourself or think twice, JUST DO
My lesson from 2009 is
To enjoy every day of my life, always stay in touch with friends.