Many of you have been there since the very beginning: when Vanae.com was just a personal journal and I was experimenting with different styles for my early webshow videos. It has developed into our thriving V’star community and I am extremely fortunate that my coaching has helped thousands and thousands across the globe. Then there are v’stars who joined pretty recently, welcome welcome! Well, it’s been an incredible year of 2009 and I wanted to thank you all for being on this journey and evolving with me.  Creating this best-of list, I realized I’ve shared and done a lot. Experienced a big year but even more excited about this new year! Here, I share the best-of topics, articles and games we’ve played in 2009!

DATING:
- To be single or NOT to be single
- How to deal with cheating
- Hasn’t called back?
- Getting involved with a married person
- Men/Women communicate differently: Action vs Speaking
- Worst Date Story
- What to do when your date flakes
- How NOT to feel lonely after a breakup
- 10 things NOT to do on a date
- Selling yourself
- How to deal with on/off relationships
- Can true love be harvested?

SELF-EMPOWERMENT:
- Touch
- Needing help?
- Why does it bother you?
- 9 ways to feel better about yourself
- Doesn’t need to be perfect
- 10 ways to feel more complete
- Confidence, are you born with it?
- Don’t be insecure
- Embracing
- How to love yourself
- Unveiling

GOODNESS:
- If money was replaced by kindness
- Take a chance
- Abundance
- Getting Personal: Dating one of my fans
- You matter

GAME DAE WEDNESDAE:
- Piecing together a love story
- Ignore or Reject
- Favorite love movies
- Greatest accomplishment
- Tattoos
- Pet peeves
- Favorite ishh cream flavor?
- One change
- Super power!
- Who are you?