SEXtalk with SkyyJohn, part 3:
I love talking about topics that are taboo! Sex was a very taboo topic growing up in a conservative yet gangsta vietnamese community. Shietz, it was the reason that got me interested in this area, in the first place. But I wanted to challenge that and was one of the rare open book (in high school) to talk about sex, sexuality and dating. Hence, my natural calling as a Life & Dating Coach and Sexual Health Peer Educator (in college).
We all do it or at least it’s on our mind. We talk about it with our friends yet it’s not openly discussed much. So let’s get it out in the open, explore and have real talk! For those who know me personally or met in person, you’ll know that I am goofy, crude, love to laugh and very open about talking about anything.
So here is the 2nd part of my episode with SkyyJohn, part of V’talk Thursdae, discussing a taboo topic (that people rarely talk about) – if you are open to/ like ass stimulation and you’re a guy, does that mean you’re gay?
Look, gay is a sexual orientation- a preference and attraction to the same sex.
Gay IS NOT an adjective. Nor does it have anything to do with sexual acts between heterosexuals.
So perhaps this ventures into a sub-topic:
Gay- what does that mean to you? Especially Gay V’stars, I would love your thoughts so we can breakdown this excessive usage of the term ‘gay’ for the wrong reasons. Claim it.
V’stars, would love to know what your thoughts are on this week’s Vanae.com episode!
MUAH!
Vanae
I haven’t tried it, but I am willing to try, but prefer those tiny finger dildos instead of a finger, like skyyjohn said those nails scare me….
Ass stimulation isn’t gay, being with someone from the same sex is, even so, nothing wrong with it. Its part of nature.
They say the prostate is the G-spot for men, so I am pretty sure it feels good, most men fear it not because of being gay, but because of role reversal, being on the receiving end is “submissive”, “feminine”, and would be under the “mercy” of the woman, which not a lot of guys like it.
I say, what ever happens in the bedroom is your business, and as long as you are not hurting anyone, enjoy whatever!
i totally agree!
Vanae
Actually just thought about something, if a woman uses a dildo on a guy is gay. does that make lesbians who use dildos straight?
This folks, is what we call a thinker. A philosopher even. I commend you good sir! I’m gonna have to ask some of my lesbian friends about that.
Really Vanae?!! Ass stimulation?? You are such an uplifting positive lady and this video kind of felt like a detour. While I’m not shy about talking sex (and no I don’t think assplay with a woman is “gay”), I think you should continue your inspirational messages.
hey todd,
though i’m still doing my ‘inspirational’ messages, i’m still going to continue to discuss other topics that interest me (dating, sexuality, life, empowerment and more).
this should be hub where v’stars can discuss all different topics.
Got a tent. Itz not street legal.
is it just me? or i NO comprende that.
V
he is answering the tent request.
I commented in the wrong box.
I’m know I’m not gay, and I think the word has really been diluted by its over use. I don’t think anything of it now when people say the word. Fag, now that still has a negative connotation.
On to the ass play part of the email – I love it when my gfriend sticks a finger up my ass or plays around back there when we are fooling around. Initially I know she thought I was bi-curious or something was wrong with mer but when she found out how much it turned me on and that I wasn’t gay, her attitude completely changed. Now she loves playing around back there because she knows it heightens my experience.
We bought a strap on and she tried it out twice. It was certainly strange the first time and I felt really weird (and so did she) when she started f***ing my ass, but the second time she got all dressed up in leather etc, we had a few drinks and we did a bit of mistress/slave type stuff and wow, it was great. I certaily wouldn’t make this a habit but it sure was fun, and isn’t that what sex is all about?
Interesting topic, I know ass play sure has changed my sexual relationship with my girlfriend.
Yeah…I’m onboard with SkyyJohn on this subject. I have a sign on my ass that says “Exit only”. That’s a restricted area.
I really don’t know where I’m at on this one. I like the idea, and I know I really like it when a girl puts pressure on my ‘taint’ (i hate that word for some reason). But I’ve never gone the whole nine yards like Glenn has. I think it might feel good…but idk. I guess, if a girl really wants to get adventurous….Well I do like to please the women in my life so I’d probably try it once or twice. And then 5 more times just to make sure of my opinion…lol.
I know I like playing with a girls butt hole…And I’m all about equality so that’s where I’m at. Oooh! Vanae, u should do one on 3somes. I’ve recently had the offer of joining a couple I know. A guy and a girl. Not sure about the 2 guys thing but In all fairness I should allow it if I want to try the 2 women thing, right?…so idk, but a 3some is always a fun topic. Lol, and I was shocked with this topic. But I think I like it! Lol, keep up the work, both the inspirational and the…….inspirational videos.
I’m not gay and I do it from time to time , it’s awesome ! and btw I love that cute vanae at the end of the show ^_^
Solid facts? :3
Dirty, aberrated, and guess what, one of the best sources for STD-s.