We’ve all been through it. Either we were the ones who didn’t hear back from the person we’re interested in or the one who didn’t respond. In this world of dating, often times it’s a tipping scale of interest and it may take a few people to meet your leveled match.
V’stars, if you were the one who didn’t get back to someone over a week, what’s your reasoning?
There was this one girl. I took out for lunch once. She was okay, not like a perfect match but someone I could see myself hanging with.
I stopped responding the texts’ she sent me because every third reply on her part was “m sick, gals stuff” or “m sick”. Don’t get me wrong i’ve got nothing against sick people but it’s quite the conversation stopper and this happened every time. I eventually actually told her that it’s not attractive to keep complaining about being sick and then she did it again!!!
To be honest I don’t know if the actual being sick was why I didn’t reply, probably more playing the ‘victim’ role put me off.
If I haven’t got back to the guy – as Vanae implied – there could be all sorts of reasons, maybe I am just busy or maybe there has been a natural disaster and things are still being sorted (such as the freak storm and damage that happened in Perth, Australia – 2 weeks ago – I am still waiting for my roof repairs and new ceilings.
So the upshot is – ask her again! Be bold! 9/10 times the girl will like you for asking the second time, even if she wasn’t interested the first time. And no sms’s or leaving messages – talk to her – ask her out!
This is advice for guys (girls better you create interest but still have him ask you out).
Wishing you success