vanae (happier you* guide)

me documenting her beautiful wedding.

i was her bridesmaid and i hope that that didn’t jinx me to be a bridesmaid forever!

we met an interesting stripper lady at the hustlers club in sf, during this great bachelorette weekend. she shared how different the strip clubs are compared to where she’s from. we asked and she told us that she’s from el salvador.

dana looked at me and asked “is that in texas?”

oh lord. i’m adding this to the ‘things that dana says….”

being a female definitely has its perks, especially when it comes to pampering.

i just got home from a wonderful spa, burke williams, in sf and let me tell yah..i’m rejevunated.

shower. hot tub, steam room, full body massage, cucumber-orange-lemon water, full amenities.

burke williams understand women. they’ve got the formula down!

someone (fran) once told me that my dating life is vibrant. is it because:

*i hung out with a lesbian, who then turned out to be the sister of a guy i hooked up with

*my platonic friend made a move on me out of the blue and asked if things were going anywhere. ackward*

*i went on a date with a guy who turned out to be the same guy i stopped seeing after one date 4-5 years ago. awkward*

*i dated a vancouver guy, who i was super compatible with… actually turned out to be psycho. he striked out 3 times:

1) getting jealous because i was talking to a hot female friend

2) freaked out because i asked him what he thought about dating other people

3) didn’t come to my event (that i’ve been planning for months) because he didn’t feel comfortable being surrounded by my friends

*the most recent guy i really liked, turned out to be emotionally unavailable, semi-depressed and unstable. but he is sweet and an honest gentleman…

dating issues: we all have them.

what’s yours?

finally, here is the video i filmed using my new sanyo xacti hd-2 camera.

me and the gang loving the snow. (notice their faces..concentrating hard for trivia pursuit)

what did you do for new years?

someone messaged me today and said “you look like michelle kwan”.

what the hell? i didn’t get the memo that we’re back in 1998!

just because i’m asian, doesn’t mean i look like her

or Ziyi Zhang

or lucy liu

thank you very much.

who do you look like?

what are 5 random facts about yourself?

what are other signs?