vanae (happier you* guide)

what’s your christmas wish and story?

last weekend, i hosted a holiday wine party at my place. and it was tons of fun!

great friends, lovely wine, singing christmas songs, yummy food, a friendly competition of gingerbread building, and kicking ass in pool. here’s a peek: before the party

and here is when the soiree continues!

hope you’re spending your holidays with loved ones.

i took wednesday off to spend a day with mily, my best friend. it was our special day, because this is the first quality time with her since she moved back here.

we kicked off the day by getting my first tattoo; a lightning bolt. symbolizing: youth, taking charge, carpe diem and strength. frank, my tattoo artist at ’sacred tattoo’ in oakland, was gentle and cracks some jokes to make the first experience really cool. it wasn’t that painful.

we enjoyed the swimming sharks and beautiful fish at ‘aquarium by the bay‘ and spent the rest of the dae in sf!

here’s photos of our adventure: sf

http://youtube.com/watch?v=315FVTPRLFo

finally, i’m making a video for my ladies…but i need your input!

i’m collecting responses from guys, for my next video topic: ONLY SEX? or REAL DEAL?

please answer:

A. How to tell if guy is into the girl just for sex/physical?

B. How to tell if the guy wants to date the girl (possible relationship)?

please provide an answer list for both questions.

so far the responses have been fabulous and i can’t wait to make the video!

vanae’s tip of the dae: whenever you have doubts, just say ‘whateva’. don’t let doubts fill your mind because before you know it, you’ll have them figured out.

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