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10 things NOT to do on a date!

Hey V’stars, after you watch this new episode, I want to you to share one tip of WHAT NOT TO DO ON A DATE, as well!

Happy weekend!

Love you.
Vanae

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24 Comments »

Comment by Wissam
2009-05-17 10:26:53

Hmmm, never tried masturbating with a sock…
I should try that :P

Comment by Vanae
2009-05-17 16:03:26

i might try that as well
ha! i kid.

 
 
Comment by josh
2009-05-17 13:18:13

ha dont be all on them to much touchin and rubbin or they might think your weird person lol or mace you and call police ha

Comment by Vanae
2009-05-17 16:04:13

yes, too touchy/feely will turn them off right away, esp if they’re not feeling you ..get it..feeling you.

har har, vanae is so funny.
=)

 
 
Comment by martin
2009-05-17 20:11:24

comming here for tips and positivity and we are talking about socks…great topic, like the elephant in the living room. This would be interesting to hear about as everyone does this (not the sock thing)
I think but yet no one talks about it. I was doing some standup one time and said to a packed room ” don’t look at the person next to you because it is possible that they are a chronic masturbator” etc, etc. etc. After the show all sorts of people came up to me and said I thought you were talking about me…
so how about this. With the way things are going, living with your mom with no job and a drawer full of socks doesn’t sound all that bad. Have a great day and thanks for the website! Carpe diem (or sock)

 
Comment by Kamal
2009-05-17 20:17:23

Figure out the other’s level of confidence, gauge what amount of light-hearted teasing you can give, and give it. This demonstrates confidence and makes the date a bit fun.

Comment by Kamal
2009-05-17 20:19:10

Oh snap, I should have mentioned that teasing is something TO DO as opposed not to do. So DON’T REFRAIN from light teasing once you’ve gauged the other’s confidence level.

 
 
Comment by martin
2009-05-17 20:27:08

I forgot to leave a tip. Do not bring up the subject of solo sex on the first date.

 
Comment by Charlie
2009-05-18 04:26:08

Good tips, thanks ill keep that in mind for the next weekend.

 
Comment by tyler
2009-05-18 08:09:03

never listin to music if you have you ipod. the is a sine that you dont care. me friend did that and he go dumped, lol XD

Comment by vanae
2009-05-21 06:14:38

an ipod on a date…yeah, that’s a definite no-no

 
 
Comment by Charles
2009-05-18 18:12:55

be funny but not so much..! girls don’t like a buddy actting like an ass.. leave the jockes at home and get relax talking with her.. vanae..! you’re my hero..!!lol

Comment by vanae
2009-05-21 06:15:16

yes, leave the douchebags and jocks at home!

aww, thanks charles!

2009-06-07 20:43:02

well elmo, gatomon, hello kitty and MegaMan are my heroes, room for one more what do ya say? you get a spiffy glow in the dark badge, a whistle spinny ring, a batsignal and decoder, and and a bag O’ trail mix which expired 3 weeks ago but its still good cuz its says best if eaten before!

so it means its still okay, but not as good as it used to be?

Y & <3

[and buttercup and tommy pickles]

^_^

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Comment by jon
2009-05-21 06:09:40

werd em up!

 
Comment by CyerBrian
2009-05-21 15:29:35

Yeah yeah! On the First Don’t Order a Freakn Coke.. If the girl your on a Date with order’ Water lol Im for reall don’t Dooooooooooooooooo it !LOL

 
Comment by puch4cz
2009-05-31 03:11:28

That video was pretty funny :) Buy, not sell! Makes you look at it from a different perspective, that helps!

 
Comment by Jeremy
2009-06-06 06:45:49

Don’t look down or let your eyes wonder. Pay attention and keep eye contact!

 
2009-06-07 20:35:06

keep your phone on viberate except for 2 alarms 30 minutes into the date and 45 after the first alarm.

that way if you are having a bad time, you can just bail by saying your friends car battery craped out on her and your the only she could get a hold of…

asking her to have some coffee in the afternoon or morning is a good idea, you can just be? straightforward, its just a cup of coffee and if it doesn’t click no harm done,it didn’t drag on, and if it did click then go do something else, trust me its allot less of a stressfull situation and less indimedating for the both of you

Y & <3

 
Comment by Ian
2009-06-26 04:01:34

Remember – Moderation!

Maybe its just me, but if I am interacting with ANYONE who seems to be smiling too much, I become suspicious of their intentions, as I expect them to be covering up something and just going to stab me in the back later.

There are a lot of schemers out there, and they have no problem standing straight, looking you in the eyes and smiling generously.

 
Comment by Marta
2009-09-12 01:51:38

Sex talk. No sex jokes, sexual references…no sex talk!!! I date to get to know someone to see if it could lead up to a LTR. If a guy talks about sex, makes me think he just wants a booty call. If I talk about sex, he’s going to think I’m going to give it up soon. I set the tone by avoiding sex talk and if he brings it up, I casually ignore it and change the subject.

 
Comment by zain
2009-09-14 01:44:17

how wise is it to have a first date at a movies?

 
Comment by John
2009-11-30 17:44:40

Ooh, thanks vanae. Good tips I’d say!!

And by JOVE are you looking pretty.

 
Comment by joshua
2010-01-04 15:45:34

wow, sometimes i just wonder where you get these things.I fine it indeed interesting.Great Tips and thanks!

 
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